Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 So I my boyfriend has moved in with me. All he does is sit on the computer or play video games. I don't mind the video games because after all, that's how he and I met. The only thing is, is that we were doing the long distance thing. He moved to my state and lives with my family and I. He's anti social. I go to work and he never leaves the room. He's selfish with my things as well as his, For example I could be watching something on netflix and he would come and attempt to change it with no regard to me (it's my console and Tv btw). He can play single player video games for 15 hours straight and the moment I want to play something, he wants to play with me. He hasn't made the effort to look for work, instead he sits on the computer and watches porn and masturbates. Masturbation is healthy I know, but it just seems like he NEEDS to do it. The moment we wake up he goes from the bed to the computer. I feel like its a problem because he hides it, He deletes the browser history after each use now. I know this is all over the place but I'm typing as the thoughts come to mind. He's been living with me for a month, is that too soon to have him look for work? Link to comment
mzara Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 A lazy man, in my opinion, is never going to change. Give him an ultimatum or he gets a job or he goes back home Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 First of all, I can't understand why your parents would allow this freeloader to use their home as a flophouse. Yes, it's time to send him back, ASAP. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 He's been living with me for a month, is that too soon to have him look for work? He should have been looking for work before he even got to you. He's a mooch, send him back to his parents. Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 What part of this is working for you? Don't you have some kind of basic criteria for a boyfriend? He seems like a complete zero... Link to comment
starla95 Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 Sounds almost exactly like my situation...sad to say he has shown you his true self. This is as good as it gets, and trust me, you do not want this kind of partner. Send him back before you waste as much time on this sort of guy as I did Link to comment
Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 I may have to. Thanks Link to comment
Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 Well he painted a better image. =/ Even this morning as I'm getting ready for work, I asked to use this extension cord so I can straighten my hair, whicht his computer is connected to and his reply was "well uh I'm downloading stuff" and let out a huge huff. Meanwhile he was playing video games. Link to comment
Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 How did you get out? Link to comment
Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 Sounds almost exactly like my situation...sad to say he has shown you his true self. This is as good as it gets, and trust me, you do not want this kind of partner. Send him back before you waste as much time on this sort of guy as I did He should have been looking for work before he even got to you. He's a mooch, send him back to his parents. Well he had a job at a grocery store back home, he tried getting a transfer within the company but just abandoned it. Even after he put his two weeks notice in, his job asked if he wanted to leave sooner AND HE DID! I wouldn't do that, I told him he should have saved as much as possible but NOPE. Link to comment
Zelda23 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 Sounds almost exactly like my situation...sad to say he has shown you his true self. This is as good as it gets, and trust me, you do not want this kind of partner. Send him back before you waste as much time on this sort of guy as I did communicate please I'm going to try. Link to comment
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