Should I have made a move?

[Niceguy1001]

Went out with a girl 4 times. Getting more progressive each date. Kissed after the second date. Made out 3rd date. 4th date she came over to my place and we watched a movie and cuddled together in my bed and made out some more but it didn't go further past that. I think maybe because I didn't make a move she may feel that I'm not interested now. We've talked about going on another date but think I need to make a move soon or risk loosing her interest. Any opinions? After each date she has said that she's had a good time. Can I lose the girl if we don't go further after the 5th date?

[IAmFCA]

If you are otherwise clear that you are interested, I think she may be charmed by your pace.

 

There is no right time to have sex. It depends on each individual's goals, comfort levels, belief system, etc. While there is no right time, there is a wrong time: before your are 100% sure you are ready. Do what is honest to you. That has the most integrity.

[dali]

Yes you should make a move. Have a little bit of fun!

[Niceguy1001]

I'm pretty sure I should have, the way she hesitated to leave like she didn't want to go anywhere I should have made some kind of move to further everything. I guess I'll have to wait for the next date to see how things turn out. Hopefully I get another

[IAmFCA]

Sometimes we gals are used to boys chasing us for sex so we kind of move to expect it. When it doesn't happen like we expect, it sets you apart from the rest. Go with it. You gave her a taste of weekdays down the road, so I think you did good.

[missmarple]

I don't think so. I think you're fine. It's only been 4 dates, after all, not 14.