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Hi all,

 

It's around 2 years since my ex and I first broke up. For the last year or so, we have been good friends, and it has been relatively fine. However, over Christmas something has just clicked, and I feel like I just can't have regular contact with her anymore, at least not for the time being For now, I feel like being friends with her is holding me back.

 

I just wanted to know if anyone else has had an experience similar to this? If so, did it resolve the issue and the nagging feelings? Did the other person understand as well as could be expected?

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Many times the choice to be "friends" directly after a breakup is a tactic used by the dumpee in hopes of getting back into the relationship. I'm not saying this is the case with your breakup, as I'm using this as an example.

 

Also, this is no longer about her, it's about what you need to do in order to move forward.

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