Trevorjames Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 She pretty much cut me off from her life, doesn't communicate, defriended me and mutual friends and family. And Seems 100% disinterested in me anymore. I am positive she will eventually want to work things out, as her mother has told me she still doesnt know what she wants, and she tells her mom everything. Question is, she cut me off completely from her but still feels at liberty to use my netflix... I don't want to piss her off further but part of me also feel extremely disrespected by it. You wont talk to me but you will use me for movies? So i either make a prideful stand and cut her off risking upsetting her further, or I can act like it doesn't even faze me and that I'm happy to let her use it, or maybe it looks like I'm desperate to please her. Rock and a hard place.... I know what you will all say, "cut her off she cut you off". Lots of maybes. Maybe it will just piss her off, maybe she will get it and not worry, maybe she will not even care one bit. Either way I want her back and am stuck wondering if being bold and saying no you cant use me, or just letting it go would work best. I want her to miss all the good things I did for her, so maybe taking it away would be best? Link to comment
Fudgie Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 I would feel a bit disrespected too considering that she has cut you off completely but is still using your account. I say change the password and change all the passwords that you ever gave her. Cut her off completely. If she wants to watch movies, she can pay $8/month herself. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Simple, change the password. And if she wants netflix bad enough she will get her own or maybe reach out to you like you wanted. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 If she wants nothing to do with you you are most likely not getting her back. So who gives a rat's backside if you cut her off Netflix? She doesn't have $8 a month? Seriously change your password. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 haha, this is an easy fix. change your password! Link to comment
Jennifer89 Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Cut her off. Clean endings and all of that. If she wants to be your friend or to use your netflix, she can talk to you. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Yup. Change the password to something strange she would never think of. Link to comment
Furbys Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Another vote for change your password. Why are you worried about cutting her off? She cut you off already she is just freeloading from you now! Link to comment
amipushy Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Change your password. She wont thank you, and it wont make her take you back, she will just think you are too weak to cut her off and havent got over her. Dont ever let someone use you, however much you want them back. Proving her wrong will get her attention far more than letting her use you. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Just change the password without saying anything. Next time she goes on to use it, it won't work. Seriously if that pisses her off, that is ridiculous. If she had access to your credit card, would you let her use that too?! And be worried about cutting her off from it?? Cause that is how silly this is. Link to comment
Autumnleaves Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 what she's doing is cheeky. What a brass neck she must have. Another vote here for changing your password. Link to comment
Trevorjames Posted January 4, 2014 Author Share Posted January 4, 2014 Well I changed it. If she can't even be bothered to talk to me, then she could be bothered to pay for own damn netflix instead. Maybe she can add that to the list of things I did to make her life better now that its gone. Not holding my breath though. Im ready to be indifferent to this person, anger and love is a self destructive circle to be in. Not having her on my netflix might help that. And who knows maybe Amipushy is right. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 On another note, it's a good idea to change your passwords regularly anyway.... you should change all of them just in case. Link to comment
Trevorjames Posted January 4, 2014 Author Share Posted January 4, 2014 "What a brass neck she must have." Wow, that phrase describes her perfectly, I never thought to use it. She has no idea how her actions affect others and is to "busy" to care. Thanks for that one Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 actually, a password like that is good. Whatabrassneckshemusthave!3000@ a long phrase with that many characters is easy to remember but hard to crack. don't use that, but you get my drift! Link to comment
louisecar Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Good idea to change the password and change any other passwords she may know Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Dont owe her anything ... I could see if you guys were on good terms but your not..there is nothing she can say or do to make her right in this situation dont let people take advantage of you. glad you changed the password.. Link to comment
Iggles Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 Seriously?? If you don't want her using your account then changed the password! It's that simple. Problem solved. The real reason you're hung up on this is because you want her back but netflix usage is NOT going to accomplish that. Link to comment
Shane Falco Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 If you don't change the password than you are extremely spineless. She broke up with you -- who cares if she'll get mad? SHE FIRED YOU FROM THE RELATIONSHIP!! I mean, if you continue to allow this you might as well mail her your balls as well. Link to comment
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