My EX Bf's NEW girlfriend texted me from his phone asking if I wanted to have a

[oliviatovar]

My EX Bf's NEW girlfriend texted me from his phone asking if I wanted to have a threesome with them....????!!

 

 

She texted me & introduced herself as his gf and asked if I wanted to have a threesome with the two of them. Completely came out of left field for me. I didn't even know he was seeing someone to begin with and I don't even know this girl. Apparently she must know me, she said "hit us up if you are down, if not don't hit him up" Lol. I don't even know what to think of this, I def did not end up texting back, this is the first girlfriend he has had since we broke up like three years ago. It's sooo strange to me.

 

 

I haven't hooked up with him since we broke up, because I fell in love with someone else and was basically just over him he smokes way to much pot and I just find him lazy and unattractive BUT I did loose my V card to him so I still have attatchment to him in a way because losing my virginity was really special to me but basically I completely screwed it up by choosing the wrong person to give it to. Since you know I later realized I couldn't barely stand him as a person. Okay, well this whole text message thing really kind of freaked me out a bit and I don't know just yeah....

 

So yeah I don't personally know her but she is from the same hometown as us so I believe it is possible that she knows who I am personally. Uhmmmm and okay I forgot what else I was going to say but she's not really someone I would want to hook up with anyways even if I was interested but he is gross and this whole thing just makes me sick to my stomach! ICK

[toby17]

Wow, that's a first!

 

I think you only have two choices:

(1) say something short and to the point like "Thanks but I think I'll pass"; or

(2) ignore it.

I think most people would suggest ignoring it.

 

As for the lesson in this... I think you just need to be grateful that you're rid of him.

 

Can't be easy. Good luck.

[offplanet]

Yes definitely good to be away from him. That's horrible.

[Dragunov-21]

Ignore it. Easy

[shelty24]

Ignore it. And get over your "attachment" mentality to him. Hes a loser and your better off away from him

[missmarple]

What

[Tanzi]

She only wants you to contact her if you're interested and seeing as you're not there really is no need for any response.

[annie24]

lol!!!! i've never seen this type of thread before!! wow!

 

 

 

So what are you going to say?

[Autumnleaves]

oh dear

 

I would ignore it. I've always said if your ex is in another relationship then stay completely out of it. No contact, no responding, nothing, just leave them to it. That way your name can never be brought up for any reason if it all goes wrong.

[SooSad33]

Umm yah... ick! What an odd invite!