benjaminedward Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 I play music as a weekend side job at some local wineries where i live. One of the places I play I get booked by a certain girl. She is married. we text sometimes concerning dates I play there. thats all its ever been.I sent her a text the other day saying something like, you are awesome! Thanks for the dates..., or something like that... She send me a text back saying something like... "you are our favorite, we love you, flattery gets you everywhere!" what does this mean? Is this her flirting with me? What does she mean by this ladies? the flattery gets you everywhere had me kinda wondering. lol Link to comment
mhowe Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 No, she is not flirting with you. She is "marketing" for the winery. Making you feel good. Period. Notice she said you are OUR favorite, WE love you. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 No, she is not flirting with you. She is "marketing" for the winery. Making you feel good. Period. Notice she said you are OUR favorite, WE love you. This. She isn't flirting. She is being nice and energetic. That's all. Link to comment
benjaminedward Posted December 30, 2013 Author Share Posted December 30, 2013 thank you thank you! I felt weird there for a minute. lol. had to ask. Link to comment
Johnny Utah Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 Stay away from married people unless you want a world of hurt. Link to comment
journeynow Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 No, she is not flirting with you. She is "marketing" for the winery. Making you feel good. Period. Notice she said you are OUR favorite, WE love you. I agree! Don't read anything into it, it's business. Link to comment
savignon Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 I agree. I would use the same language ('we/our') for a business interaction that involved booking entertainment. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 When someone is married and you think they are flirting with you then don't come to a forum and ask strangers what they think, (you won't always get an accurate answer to something someone has done or said whom we dont even know) Instead... just shut it down, ignore it and don't be thinking anything other then innocence. You'll keep YOURself out of trouble if you have personal boundaries that you won't let anyone cross. Link to comment
FlashEng1 Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 When someone is married and you think they are flirting with you then don't come to a forum and ask strangers what they think, (you won't always get an accurate answer to something someone has done or said whom we dont even know) Instead... just shut it down, ignore it and don't be thinking anything other then innocence. You'll keep YOURself out of trouble if you have personal boundaries that you won't let anyone cross. This x100!! For the record, she could have said "I" in everything and even asked you out on an official date.... never date a married woman unless she's in the middle of completing her divorce. By the way, the "you are awesome" text you sent her is what she was referring to as flattery. Or whatever the compliment really was in your text. But no, her being in marketing/pr, an outgoing personality like that is pretty much expected Link to comment
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