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Does it really work out?


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So 9 months ago my ex(first true love, the same for her) of 2 years broke up with me because of her losing feelings and had feelings for her childhood best friend. A few days before he left to the navy(active duty) she told him she had feelings for him. Btw, the best friend liked her even when I was still with my ex. He was really in the picture specially when my relationship with my ex was going downhill. She even went to his boot camp graduation with his family and that's when he asked her to be officially together blah blah even gave her a promise ring lol anyways, I never stalked them. I don't even have them on any of my social networking including the relevant peeps that posts about them. I'm actually happy for them. No hate. I just want to know if it really does work out? since they've been best friends since childhood basically know almost everything about each other. They don't have to start from scratch and try to know each other and build the love. It's just that they turn into lovers now. I believe they talk on the phone/facetime/video chat ever single day. It just hit me all night and I started thinking about them being stronger and stronger every time they see each other in person(when he visits) since they're basically doing their own things right? Like I guess there's less fights/problems/arguments? So this will be a successful relationship for them? + I know that he will be her first..yes I've never done with her since she was scared at first and wanted it more when our relationship was going downhill(always foreplays). I'm not asking this because I'm jealous. Okay maybe a little since it popped out on my mind since this is my first time in a few years spending the holidays without that special someone. I was just wondering. I've moved on. Happy with life. Just work, school, and gym grind for me. Priorities straight and just striving to reach my goals in life.

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Why are you worried about it? Move your focus on to yourself and forget about their relationship.. You are only harming yourself when you continue to keep tabs on your ex.. Even if they don't last, it doesn't mean she is going to run back to you.. It's just best to move on.

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