shaduo Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 So 8 months ago was the breakup. She broke it off. 2 months begging, 6 months nc. Just as I thought I was getting over her,she sends me a message on fb. Now I didn't even think about her at the time and she popped up. We had a nice conversation, now fast forward 2 weeks I messaged her earlier today to say merry Christmas. She read it because fb shows but it's been like an hour since she read it and no reply. I just need thought because im not experienced in break ups. Thank you for taking your time and merry Christmas to all! Link to comment
NewlySingle75 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 That's a tough one. It sounds like she might be missing you. Usually, it's when we least expect it is when they contact us. It could be a variety of reasons, maybe she is missing you, maybe she is having guilty thoughts....there's really no telling. I wouldn't contact her any more though and if she messages you, keep it very light and to the point. Just my suggestion. Link to comment
Monkey ai Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 you should not try to imaging her reaction, no expectation is very important when you BU, you are sweet to sent greeting, if other not reciprocal, then you don't do next time, she is not your GF, she have no responsibility to reply every time. enjoy your christmas with someone care for you, that is christmas about. have a good one! Link to comment
silversoul Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Do not expect anything. See her as any other person, and do not overthink you will only harm yourself. Link to comment
shaduo Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 I was expecting a thank you or something. But yes I shouldn't expect it. It's just the last conversion sparked old emotions I buried. Link to comment
silversoul Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Do not message her again first, it will be so tempting but don't. Wait at least some time Link to comment
Romeo November Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 You should have not broken no contact. Now that you have she feels like she has the power and can contact you anytime she wants and you will answer. Next time she contacts again, do not answer and wait for it to play out. Link to comment
shaduo Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 Thank you, and yea I know I shouldn't have.it just slowed me down. My friend said the same thing. Next time if she does I won't reply and see how that goes. Link to comment
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