goldenbaby Posted December 28, 2013 Author Share Posted December 28, 2013 You both have good points. Now I doubt he knew the reason why... I don't know if he lied consciously or not, but when he explained himself to me, he always seemed to be grasping at straws. I just wanted a proper explanation because I wanted to stay friends with him... but I realise that it doesn't matter now. We will never be like how we were before our relationship, and I don't want to either. Not after what has happened. I wouldn't worry about why. You want a man who is confident about you. Thank you Ms Darcy... It's true. He's not a bad guy, though... he's a great friend towards his buddies, but not boyfriend material; not for me at least. I want someone who's sure about me. Someone who wouldn't think twice about his feelings for me. I will start with a clean slate this new year, and focus on myself. Sooner or later someone better will come along, but I won't rush it. I won't wallow in what ifs and whys anymore, so I won't post anymore in this thread. It was nice to just talk it out, get feedback and to look at things from another angle. Thanks to you all! Link to comment
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