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Emilie Strauss

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So long stories short I'm seeing a guy that I was with for 6 months we then broke up from the 5th time and he refuses to get back with me because he doesn't trust me. He says once he trust me he will get back with me. The thing is I pretty much live at his house he treats me like a gf there is just no commitment. This has being going on almost 3 months now and my question to you is......do you just keep on waiting around for him to finally trust me one day or do I give up on commitment with him? I love him so so much and I would wait for ever but some times I think live is too short to do that. I'm still young but I do want to settle down and have a family. I really think I could with this guy but it's a two way street. Advice please!!

 

I should add that I've lied to him, he's cheated on me (kissing only) but we hadn't been the best to each other.

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If he loved you, he'd commit.

 

He wouldn't cheat on you.

 

He wouldn't break up with you.

 

If you're looking to be with someone who loves you and wants to settle down and have a family, find someone who loves you enough to commit to you for real, not just to play house and not even call you a girlfriend! Find someone who loves you so much they're too afraid of losing you NOT to seal the deal!

 

He's out there waiting to meet you.

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People make mistakes. I say live your life and grow well as a person. If you two are meant to be together it will happen. Sometimes everyone needs to grow a bit to reach the same level.

 

Behind a great partner is someone who probably screwed up quite a few times. Except you weren't around for that.

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