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Week of No Contact, Got a text..


hrdcore1337

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I wanna reconcile in the future, on better terms, but should i respond?

 

Facenook message:

 

"Hey i got a new phone and i lost your number lol so if you can message me my number is still the same thanks.but you don't have to if you don't want to just thought you should know."

 

Been NC first time ever, week 1.

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If we were together for a long time, I would respond and send the number. However, the important part is that I also wouldn't think anything of it. I would not be looking at my phone, waiting for the ex to contact me, or wondering if they want to get together, or back together, or whatever. If they want the number, they can have it. *shrug* My break ups tend to be highly civil and very final though.

 

However, if you are going to be sweating it looking for contact and obsessively checking your phone, probably best that you just ignore and get on with your life.

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yeah, she can reach you on FB - she can track you down.

 

You should BLOCK HER on Facebook so she can't just reach you to say "hi" or "what's up?" like you're her new best girlfriend.

 

Disappear from her world -- put the focus on YOU.

 

Following your ex on Facebook has been proven to delay your healing. Read this:

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