sharky988 Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 It is about right mindset, not chasing ex! I do not see the chasing part here, she want to meet OP, and then she is not sure after, been adult is about take your words seriously, just to check if the appointment is on, when you in BU relationship, they are a lot of lost translation and emotions… the problem is not about follow up or not, it is about I do not see OP in the right mind set to meet her, he has too much expectation, that is going to hurt him to get back with her. Simply I do not see OP is ready to meet her… His mindset doesn't matter -- what matters is that his ex broke up with him!! Has she contacted him to say she's changed her mind? No. Has she even contacted him to firm up their plans to meet up? No, not yet. Unless and until she contacts him to say she's changed her mind..... everything he does in terms of contacting her, trying to confirm dates, trying to have talks, etc etc is chasing someone who's broken up with him! Link to comment
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