shock and awe

[Kimcwell]

Well, the shock is that I received the proverbial "hope you are well" text from my ex-fiance. I haven't seen his face since Dec 24, 2012 and he hasn't initiated contact with me in at least 10 months, NC for about 6 months. The awe is that I deleted it without even questioning whether I should text him back or not thanks to eNA. If he wants to discuss anything with me after leaving me for dead the last year, he's going to have to do a lot better than that. I'm not getting sucked back into the will he/ won't he respond cycle that left me almost suicidal 5 months ago. Wow, I can't believe how much stronger I am today than I was even a month ago. Yay, me!!! Now I'm going to turn my phone off for the rest of the evening.

[alohalove18]

Go you!! That is awesome that you deleted it without even having a second thought about it. It takes a very strong person to do that.

[jennylove]

You go girl!!!!!!!

[hrdcore1337]

Very good!

[HeartGoesOn]

Well done!

 

 

[cutebubbles012]

That's awesome! Props to you!

[Kimcwell]

Thanks ya'll. Even though we're all strangers, your support makes me feel stronger!

[CleoC]

Awesome!

 

I wish I could act the same way in the future if something like that happens to me.

 

Stay strong!

[ParisPaulette]

That is epic, well done! You're healing quite nicely I'd say.

[Diggums70]

I needed to see this tonight, having been ruined by "communications" this week. Glad to see someone who's confirming that there's light at the end of this tunnel.

 

Thank you and congratulations

[Mesemene]

You go!!! You sound like you've come a long way, baby!

[toby17]

Good on you!!!

 

Yes, if he was serious, he'd do better than some dumb text.