TheD87 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 I went to a huge high school, like over 6000 people were at my high school. I left the state for college and now have moved back. I am friends with some people on facebook that I went to high school with, some of which I never really knew in the first place. Anyway I have noticed a couple females who I used to have a crush on in high school are still single and live in the area. One in particular sent me a friend request a few months back. I never was friends with any of them though, and the one who sent me the friend request I can honestly never remember having any conversations with her ever. I am really shy as it is so I have a hard time asking girls out, but I wondered if it is common to ask people out on facebook over messenger or would that be considered creepy? And what should I say? Like I don't really even know these people, other than basically who they are and what they post on facebook and that we have some friends in common. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 I think it MIGHT be okay, if it is done through private message and is part of a conversation that already has been going back and forth. Link to comment
TheD87 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 So should I like send them a private message asking how they have been or something and kind of read how they are reacting? Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Say hello, find something to chat about, see if the other person responds. Your first goal is just conversation. Link to comment
uniqueme Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Just chat with them and be yourself and no it's not weird Link to comment
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