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how do i get my boyfriend back before xmas


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me and my boyfriend broke up almost 2 weeks ago we planned to spend christmas together. i really want him back i hurt him by mistake coz he has aspergers and he was self harming i was helping him but it all got ontop of me so i told his brothers gf in confidence coz i was really worried and she told my ex boyfriends parents now my ex blames me and says he cant trust me again he doesnt blame her just me. i didnt do it out of spite i was worried about him. he isnt replying to any of my messages about a day or 2 ago he did text a bit then he got angry and deleted me off skype and isnt talking again and i cant get him to come see me. he is the love of my life i miss him. we have broken up before coz when he has his breakdowns he thinks its the only option but he says space will help i did space and it didnt i didnt betray him in the way that he thinks. i tried calling him the other day and is dad lied saying he wasnt in when he was i wish his parents wouldnt get involved i was the one who helped him the whole time was there for him his parents went away when they knew something was wrong now they are acting like perfect parents and like i was never there for him what do i do to get him back before xmas. please help!!

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He may just need some time to cool off, meaning you really need to give him some space. So, give him that space so that he can work out if he misses you or not.

 

PS. It would really help if you put a few more full stops in. It would make it a lot easier to read.

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Give up on your xmas wish. Its too soon and you need more time to get yourself together and to take the pressure off yourself and he hasnt had any time to process his thoughts and feelings. Start thinking that when he has processed things and if he wants you back it will be sometime in the new year.

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1. Parents are always going to circle the wagons around their children and anyone who isn't blood related is on the outside of that. Meaning you. So get used to that. Their main concern is that what you did upset him and now it's their problem to deal with, You being all sorry for interfering in this is irrelevant to the upheaval your actions have caused. Their family dynamic is non of your business, so butt out of that.

 

2. Make other plans for your time for Christmas.

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