sonicfan287 Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 True, but all I really want is to be with her. If that means just sex, I guess that'll be it, maybe until I find a girl that wants a relationship, It's better then being alone. I don't know why, but I took offense to this statement. Maybe not offense but it just struck me as odd. You seem to be in a lot of distress, not knowing what to do, what to say, worried about this woman you just met and what she may be doing (and probably is doing) and yet you end it all by saying "it's better than being alone". As someone who's been single for almost 2 years, Ive slowly begun to appreciate the benefits from being alone, yes there are benefits. For one, you don't have to worry about what your gf/fwb or f-buddy is doing when you're not around, you don't need to feel inadequate or as if you need to do something to please someone else because there's noone to please, only yourself. Don't get me wrong, love is a beautiful thing and is worth holding out for, and yes, I'll confess that sex would be nice as well, but I'm doing fine without it. I'll keep my sanity any day. I just hope things work out for you, regardless. Just some food for thought Link to comment
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