mjk44 Posted February 7, 2014 Author Share Posted February 7, 2014 She was NOT independent. She relied on help from anyone she could. Family, friends, exes, me, etc.. At the end of the relationship she claimed she wanted to be less dependent yet she broke up with me partly because I did not want to be the financial provider she felt she deserves for her and HER kids. I almost feel like I was a buffer after her last relationship. I gave her attention she seeked. However, I do believe she fell in love with me and the idea of a family together because she knew I was good to her and good to her girls. In the end though, she realized I was not going to be that man to go buy a house, move them all in and pay all of the bills. I do believe this was a big part to the ending of the relationship. Yes, maybe me staying for the comfort, and the face that she was beautiful and loved sex is shallow. However, so is wanting a man to financially take care of you and two kids that aren't his. Link to comment
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