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Just found out my boyfriend has a live in girlfriend, two kids and I'm pregnant!


raerae12

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I have been with my boyfriend for about nine months. I totally fell for him months ago, but began to become a little suspicious because I have never seen his apartment. We got in a lot of arguments about it, but I always ended up dropping it because he would always try to turn it around on me and say I must not trust him, or would make it seem like I was the crazy one. I met his friends, coworkers, and cousins, and we spend a lot of time together so I guess after a while I convinced myself that there was no way he could live with another woman, and maybe he didn't want me to see his place because he was embarrassed of it for some reason or maybe he lived with a family member. I assumed that if he lived with another woman that she would have to be too suspicious since we were always spending so much time together.

 

Anyways, I did a little digging around on facebook and found the profile of the woman who he not only lives with, but is also the mother of his two kids. I was shocked of course because I didn't know any of this, but I pieced it all together after looking through her photos and profile. I confronted him about this a week ago and showed him some of the pictures I found. All he could say was that he wasn't married to her, and that I am his girlfriend so "none of this should matter." He keeps telling me he just wants to be with me, but is not explaining any of this to me in much detail especially his relationship with this woman or their living arrangement. He is only saying they're not married. We hang out about 3-4 times a week. Sometimes he spends the night, so I just find it hard to believe that this woman wouldn't be suspicious of him if they're in a relationship.

 

To make things even more complicated, I took a pregnancy test today because my period is late and now I just found out I am pregnant. We had sex a few weeks ago and the condom broke. I haven't told him yet, because I just found out about all this other stuff literally a week ago. This whole week I have been feeling like I should probably end things with him, because he is obviously such a liar. Even if he left this other woman, he would probably cheat on me eventually too. Now that I found out I am pregnant though, I am just feeling so confused. Not sure what to do. I feel angry, embarrassed, fooled, and just kind of sad.

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Ugh. I am really sorry to hear that. Another poster had a similar situation and ended up ending things with guy. May be worth looking up her story. He sounds like a complete jerk. I don't really have advice other than that I hope you get through this tough time ok.

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