Is she interested in me again?

[triceps]

This girl was forward with me in the start, we hung out a couple of times. Then she was cold on me for a week and a half. She came up to me and we planned on doing something together in a month, I should have asked her out on a real date sooner. Things kind of died down, she works at the local gym so we'd see each other a few times a week and be friendly. I rarely would text her and I would always initiate. I might have seemed uninterested because I could never read her. I think she found another guy or just lost interest in me. We stopped communicating for a month, I would still go to workout and I could see her glance at me from afar and avoid me up close.

 

Right before the holiday she approached me asking how i've been and a few other things. She asked if I would be coming in the next day but it was the holiday so I wouldn't be there, but she had to work anyway. So she just wished me a happy thanksgiving.

 

Should I just act friendly when I see her at the gym again? I never asked her on a real date before because she was hard to read.

[DancingFool]

Rule of thumb - if you are interested in a woman, then ask her out. That's it.

When you start looking for signs, you'll drive yourself crazy and lose many great women and opportunities in the process.

[jjkk]

Amen to that dancingfool! Yes of course be friendly w/ her at the gym.

[triceps]

ok I guess I got to go for it in person.

[jjkk]

Yes! Go for it! Good luck!

[triceps]

Well today she walked by me as she was leaving, and she was texting or whatever on her phone so we just waved. I asked a mutual friend about her and it turns out she has been dating a guy for sometime. I kind of feel led on because I remember the day I met her working at the gym, she wanted to show me some exercises. Then a couple months down the road she approached me and wanted to train some boxing with me(she knows I train martial arts at another gym). I trained her a couple times she asked for my number and said she really likes training with me, then she went cold on me for about a week. Then came up to me and wanted to go to one of my competitions a month down the road.

 

It kind of sucks but whatever. I don't know if she was just making sure she could have me before dumping her boyfriend or just another attention .