FWB situation - Should I respond

[RuedeRivoli]

Please, don't judge me!

 

Alright, so because I'm moving in away a few months, I decided to set up an account to look for a FWB (I'll be asking for test results, using condoms all that drill). Anyway. There's this guy I know who sent me a message (he has no idea it's me because I only put body pictures). Now, he and I left things on a very embarrassing note a year ago.

 

I still find him extremely hot, however I'm afraid this might be a little awkward if I were to respond and tell him we know each other. Considering the fact he's looking for a hookup, do you think he'll get past the "disagreement" we had?

 

I mean, even if he still hates my guts, he'd probably get past that to get laid or no?

 

I'm not interested in him in a romantic way because he's turned out to be completely different from what I thought (even though I was interested back in the days). But since I already knew him (kinda) I'd feel comfortable with him.

 

Should I respond or no?

[missmarple]

It's hard to say when you don't explain what had happened between you in the past. Who was embarrassed and why?

[RuedeRivoli]

We had some sort of argument on something silly and I blocked him altogether.

[missmarple]

Still not enough details. What was the argument about? Did you just argue or were there insults exchanged? Had you been dating at the time?

[RuedeRivoli]

The argument was about the fact that after talking for a few weeks, he still didn't want to meet up. We've never seen one another because he kept making excuses. No insults at all. I just blocked him and told him I lost interest. We met online so we did not date "per se".

 

(It's not the guy I talked about in a previous post. I've never actually met this one).

[missmarple]

Since you had never met because he didn't want to, what makes you think he will now? I wouldn't respond to him.

[mhowe]

How can you "know" each other if you have never met?

[RuedeRivoli]

I don't know. I mean to be FWB you have to meet and I clearly stated on my profile this is what I want. So if he had no intentions of meeting up, why would he send me a message?

[RuedeRivoli]

Know as in "we talked". Formal knowing not knowing in the sense personally knowing someone.

[lavenderdove]

>>he still didn't want to meet up

 

He'll probably do the exact same thing to you again. Maybe he's just some perv who like to contact women online, but just not actually do anything about it in person. Don't waste your time.

[Zuri]

I agree with lavenderdove. I would not be surprised if he is fishing for nudes.

[Ms Darcy]

Is this the same guy from the last thread? Just move on, he's not even interested in meeting.