silversoul Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Hi everyone! As a recent dumpee, I found this site extremely helpful and reading other people's stories helps a lot. But on the other hand, I've come to a conclusion that it makes me overanalyse everything and that certainly won't help me heal. So I thought here we could post different things that we do during the day or plan to do. TO FOCUS ON OURSELVES! For example, right now I'm gonna make myself tea and start writing 50 things that I like about myself. Link to comment
randy33 Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Great Plan!..Great post....Im gonna make my bed and reorganize my place!..have a nice breakfast and be lazy! Link to comment
elsenyor Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 well it's not today this weekend i have to study for exams but... wednesday i'm going snowboarding in the swiss alps for 5 days Link to comment
DancingFool Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Indulged in a particularly long and lazy morning...make it half a day... Going to head out for a nice hike with my dog shortly. The weather people got it wrong and it's turning into a gorgeous sunny day outside. Link to comment
deejay74 Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Went to Ikea today, bought a couple of things. Put them together just now. Going out with a few friends to a Ramen place tonight. Looking forward to that. Link to comment
MisSunny Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Today is my birthday! So it's all about me. Still, can't help but feel a bit down that he hasn't contacted me today and probably won't... But there's still a lot of things to be positive about! -I've lost 30 lbs since the break-up! Wow! -I've been hanging out with a lot of people I haven't in a long time, rekindling friendships that I let go to seed during the break-up -I feel I've learned about myself and my habits from the break-up... The next relationship I'm in will be much better for it, no matter who it's with -I'm going back to school for the Spring session, and I have a plan about what to do with my life now-- much excitement I'm sure there's more, but on the smaller side, I've also been pampering myself a lot more lately. There's nothing quite like reading in a bubble bath when it's chilly outside... Link to comment
silversoul Posted November 30, 2013 Author Share Posted November 30, 2013 Happy Birthday to you, nice to see someone doing well. Regarding birthday texts, I'm sure my ex won't contact me when I have my birthday in a month's time. Link to comment
MisSunny Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Happy Birthday to you, nice to see someone doing well. Regarding birthday texts, I'm sure my ex won't contact me when I have my birthday in a month's time. Well, I wasn't thinking he would, but he reached out for the first time in 2 months on Thanksgiving, so I guess it got my hopes up a bit... But oh well. Link to comment
elsenyor Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 wow congrats, sounds like huge steps forward! happy birthday! Link to comment
DancingFool Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Happy Birthday! ...and....oooh....haven't done that in awhile......don't even know why not. Totally indulging in that later tonight. Link to comment
MisSunny Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Happy Birthday! ...and....oooh....haven't done that in awhile......don't even know why not. Totally indulging in that later tonight. Yes! Great plan! I used to dislike baths, but now I realize I like them... For relaxing. Link to comment
ChilliRed2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 Great idea for a thread Silversoul! Happy birthday MissSunny Today I am going for a walk, then making a list of activities I can try now that i have lost 36kgs(70ish lbs?) And woooohoooo no more back pain! Didnt focus on myself for three years... lots to catch up on Hope more people post their positive focus here Link to comment
silversoul Posted December 6, 2013 Author Share Posted December 6, 2013 wow that's a lot of weight, what kind of activities are you planning to try? I went for a run and did laundry today Link to comment
ChilliRed2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 wow that's a lot of weight, what kind of activities are you planning to try? I went for a run and did laundry today Me too...High five for laundry! Today i picked up the same amount of lost kilos just to remind myself...good feeling to achieve small and big goals alike. Skydiving booked! Judo, kayaking, and deep sea fishing are on the shortlist of big ideas. Link to comment
silversoul Posted December 6, 2013 Author Share Posted December 6, 2013 Wow, I'm jealous! I've actually realised that after the shock of being dumped and after his betrayal it is easier for me to get out of my comfort zone. I hope to keep it this way! I'm planning to get a bike after holidays and do a wall climbing course. Link to comment
MisSunny Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 wow that's a lot of weight, what kind of activities are you planning to try? I went for a run and did laundry today unfortunately, most of the things I wanna try to do cost money, and I'm kind of strapped for cash atm... So these plans have to be on hiatus. But I do hope to take up yoga, take some kick boxing lessons. I want to learn parkour, and I'm REALLY interested in doing some roller derby. I'd also like to get into rock climbing... The indoor kind. I'm not quite daring enough for outdoor rock climbing, yet. Plus I dont' think there's any good places for it around where I live. and it IS a fair amount of weight, but I still have a ways to go. I plan on fitting into the clothes I wore in high school again. Link to comment
ChilliRed2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Bump. Today, i took my little old grandmother out for lunch. 87 yrs old, half my hieght, and lots of stories to tell about life Link to comment
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