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I am with my GF for 7 months. There is a "small" problem that she is always in contact with her ex. Her ex is very obsessive and his acting was really close to stalking. Anyway she has decide that we would not meet in her place for a while, only in public or mine, just to avoid our possible meeting. Today I have realized that she also texts him. She says that it doesn’t mean anything and she knows that it is "inappropriate". She also says that she doesn’t want to be in contact with him and she wants to be with me. She explains me that the contact was just because of "nostalgia". (They were together for 8 yrs.). And she also says that she will TRY to stop it. They broke up because he cheated on her and just couple of days ago, she asked him to be honest and explain why he did it.

 

I think that she is still not over him; even she says that she is and she doesn’t want to go back and want to be with me. But it just doesn’t seem like that... What do you think?

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Thanks for advice. I just called her and she said that she is sorry and she doesnt want to do it anymore, becuse she doesnt want to hurt me anymore and ruin what we have. She said that it was stupid and it has anything with her relationship to him and she is over him. Will try to trust. And will see

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Nostalgia my butt.

 

You are right. She is not over him and is not in any hurry to be over him.

 

She doesn't want to be with you. If she did, she wouldn't be in contact for him for any reason whatsoever.

 

I'd drop her off at the mall so she can just go back to him, since that is, in essence, what she is doing anyway.

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