t510 Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 Why should I even bother trying anymore? Any advice on how to deal with this? My self esteem is in the gutter. I've been getting rejected a lot lately... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dcgent Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 Don't worry too much and let it get you down. Take a break from trying and get your confidence back. Assess the type of people you are being rejected and maybe see if you are going after types that don't really fit your style. You leave a pretty vague post, so not sure all the advice that can be given. Others like confidence and someone that has there "stuff" together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 Judging by your previous threads, I would recommend making more of an effort. Listen to the feedback you get from women. Talk more on dates. Call don't text. And so on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emma34 Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 Don't give up! Try a little positive self talk! I'm serious about this even though it sounds cheezy. You are a valuable person, you'd make a good partner, you are interested in finding someone, your efforts will pay off....just keep tryin! And remember...you can't win if you don't try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kendahke Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 Why should I even bother trying anymore? Any advice on how to deal with this? My self esteem is in the gutter. I've been getting rejected a lot lately... speaking from my own experience: don't let that get you down. After so many rejections, someone wonderful dawns on your horizon and it makes all of the toads you stomped worth the hassle. One truly has to weed through the lot of them before you get to the one who makes it all worth it. L'amour, l'amour, l'amour... (from the move "The Women") Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportster2005 Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 Why should I even bother trying anymore? Any advice on how to deal with this? My self esteem is in the gutter. I've been getting rejected a lot lately... Stop doing what you are doing and try something different. In general don't try to entertain or impress. Be yourself and try to listen and connect. It only takes one good date to get the confidence momentum turned around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leftright Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 My advice is to stop, take a break and re-assess your approach. Maybe you are going for those types who aren't for you. Also, if you aren't happy being single, that can come accross as being desperate, which turns most people off. In the future, just try to relax, listen and observe the other person's actions and nuances. I too am in your shoes, single and dateless.... and yes, rejection hurts...but don't let it drag you down to the point of depression. Instead, take it as a triumph, because at least you had the courage to try! (many people don't even get that far!) All in all, it is a learning experience, and if you learn from your failures, you can correct where you went wrong the next time you try. -LR Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MD Geist Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 Let me give you the run down. Women are rude and crude. that's just the price of doing business with them. You should not care about them until you get a commitment from them first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flywest29 Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 Let me give you the run down. Women are rude and crude. that's just the price of doing business with them. You should not care about them until you get a commitment from them first. Nailed it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Let me give you the run down. Women are rude and crude. that's just the price of doing business with them. You should not care about them until you get a commitment from them first. If this is your attitude, I am not surprised you are single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucha Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 Sometimes I am afraid I am going after women who are too beautiful for me. I mean, I dont fall for the typical beauty who everyone thinks is goodlooking, but I fall for pretty attractive long-haired girls and the only people coming after me are of the manly type or I dont connect with at all. Sometimes I'm afraid I'm not that goodlooking and will have to settle for someone who I not find attractive or interesting.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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