Roxxy65 Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 Sweets, as an older lady my advice is the old adage "you get further with honey than vinegar". Guys hate it when gf's get jealous, and you're paving the road for her. Best thing to do is to join up with them and be super friendly towards the girl. She will feel guilty and back off. Your bf will feel he has the coolest girl ever. Might be a bit late to do it light-hearted with your guy, but say you get him and she seems to have problems and needs a friend. Guys are good, but in real problems it might be better for his friend to have a girl to lean on. Seriously is the best way in the world to detonate situations like this. Used it last week when a girl was trying to make a similar play with a guy I was on vacation with. She was all "hey, you're so good at this. Could I pay you to spend an hour showing me how?" He was flattered and charmed, a little uncomfortable (and we're not committed, but I was being selfish) and said he probably might be able to help. I jumped in with "hey, you here by yourself girl? Wow, cool and brave. Like that in a girl! Listen, we'll be over at that spot tomorrow. Hate seeing a girl bored and alone. Come join us! Be dead cool for us to have your company. And join us for drinks / dinner later!! [trying to see how many times I could squeeze in the word "us"]. Hey, you gotta do it! I'll make sure he gives you some good tips for free [wink to him]. Here's my cell." She leaves despondent. I rave to him about how cool she is traveling by herself. How fun it will be to have another girl along. Great if he takes her aside for an hour as she is a bit too high pitched and intense for me, but still cool if she joins us for drinks / dinner as I could see they were friends. He literally said "You are just amazingly cool." She of course didn't even show the next day, or call. Win-win Link to comment
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