rjoe Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 OK, well the other day I went to Lunch with a girl from work, who I like. First time seeing her out of work. It was just her and me. We went to a cafe and had a light lunch and talked well into the afternoon, for 3.5hours to like 4hours. WE would have kept talking except I had to go to dinner with my family later in the afternoon. Is talking for this long with no awkard sileces or anything. Oh this was not a date just lunch. Quote Link to comment
tea Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 ^_^ of course it's good. it means you guys hit off well and have a lot of common interests. ask her out more? Quote Link to comment
digital fiction Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 Its good. One of the key points to a relationship is the conversation and such, definitely being a social person and talking for four hours straight is easily a good thing, no doubt. Not many people can talk for that long, not even I lol. Quote Link to comment
rjoe Posted December 2, 2004 Author Share Posted December 2, 2004 Well I guess I will try my Spontaneous Idea (see link removed ) tomorrow as I got nothing better to do, and if she cant/wont be spontaneous I will allways see her the next day at work. Quote Link to comment
rjoe Posted December 2, 2004 Author Share Posted December 2, 2004 I found the talking part easy. Now you probably know of The O.C and I love a quote from it which can be used for most conversations with girls. Seth: What do you and your dad talk about Summer: Me! Seth: Uh Summer: Its our common interest. That is so true, women love to talk about them. This will then lead on to other things Quote Link to comment
Howtobefreaky Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 Geez, I can't even talk with my best friends for that long... Quote Link to comment
NinjaLink Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 Yes, that is very good. Good communication is a start to well developed relationships. Sometimes you just gotta stay on a couple subjects the conversation because you dont want to start running out of things on what to talk about later on in the future. That is how people get bored easily. lol. Ask her if she wants to go out again. You are doing well. Good luck Quote Link to comment
OmegaMan Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 How could it not be good? Good for you buddy, right on! Etienne Quote Link to comment
rjoe Posted December 3, 2004 Author Share Posted December 3, 2004 Do you think I should ask her on a proper date, or should I just meet up with her again for more of just hanging out. If you get what I mean. Like make it clear it is a DATE. If I should how should I do this. I am not the most un shy person. Quote Link to comment
OmegaMan Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 Stop being afraid, fear is probably one of the worst adviser one could ever get. Go for it, ask her out to do something. Don't pressure yourself too much however. E. Quote Link to comment
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