sasha12 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 They say that a man thinks about sex once every five minutes. How often do women think about sex? Because I think of it several times a day. Link to comment
unnaturally_thin Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 i think bout it several times a day as well. don't really know why. just do Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I also heard that guys think about sex a lot. You asked how often women think about sex...that depends on several things, in my opinion, like hormones and if there's someone special or if we're stressed. Stress decreases libido through hormones, namely by an increase in cortisol. It seems like when it's closer to that time of the month, most of my friends tell me they feel hornier and they also crave chocolate. If there's someone special that a woman is thinking about, well...I shouldn't have to elaborate more on that one! Link to comment
sasha12 Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 lol, I think all women have fantasies about that special someone! Link to comment
Scout Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 lol, I think all women have fantasies about that special someone! They don't even have to be that special. Link to comment
tahlia Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I think about it quite a bit, but not even just sex. I mean if i'm thinking about someone special it might even just be thinking about kissing them, touching them, thinkinga bout the cute way they smile or their eyes etc or other intimate encounters. This is a good way to consume time, espcecially at work! Link to comment
sasha12 Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 yes i know I had a fantasy today about a guy I saw in the store. I didn't even know him. he he Link to comment
ops Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I use to think of sex quite often (not as often as men, though--they're just weird). *lol* But, at this point in my life, sex just isn't an issue, let alone an afterthought. And the reason for that is the recent experiences in my life (not so pleasant) where my goals have shifted from findin' love to securin' my future financially instead. Dirty thinkin' will come when this goal has been achieved and I'm intrigued by the opposite sex, again. For the moment the opposite sex has left me in the mires of uncertainty and distrust. This will come to pass and afternoon delights will prevail. *lol* Link to comment
Hailey Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I can assure you that I don't have any sexual appetite at the office ! Link to comment
sasha12 Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 lol,men are weird when it comes to sex. If any of you guys would like to defend yourself on that subject feel free. Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 No, its about right...I think about it all the time. Guys don't need more then seconds to undress you and think of what we can do to you. DBL Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I think about it alot... in fact I'm having some thoughts right now.. Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Thoughts about me Muneca? Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I agree with Scout..."they don't even have to be that special." LOL I guess I forgot to mention alcohol can also affect how much women think about and want sex. I don't know...how many drinks do you have till they're cute? Ops brought up a good point, also. How much a person thinks about sex depends on what's going on in their life at the time. I mentioned stress. I guess it all goes back to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs from psychology 101. The basis of the pyramid is made up of physiological needs, such as food, water, and excretion of wastes. When those needs are met, then a person focuses on getting and receiving love (family and friends). When that's accomplished then he/she moves on to achieve self-esteem. The last level is self-actualization. Maslow theorized that people move through these multiple levels and their needs change, depending upon their circumstances. It makes perfect sense. So, would sex be under self-actualization? \ Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 About you? umm.. maybe you should put some clothes on..... Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I prefer to be half naked. The least amount of clothes the better. DBL Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Hey Muneca and DBL, whatever you have to do to get your needs met or reach self-actualization, go for it! Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I'm not sure DBL has made it to the top of Maslow's pyramid.... JK D What Balley said goes with what Ops described--interesting. I thought the same thing. Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I'm still on the air to breath, water to drink part of the pyramid. DBL Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 No sex or thinking about it for you DBL! LOL [-X Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Actually Bally, I think the self-actualization area of the pyramid is where you start to give back.. Once all our basic needs are met then we start to give to others. .. much as we do here on eNotalone. Interesting thoughts though. but let's get back to the topic...from what I see sex is definitely on our minds--we just don't say it. Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 If I had to say it I would lose my voice. Bally...thinking about not thinking about it makes me think about it. DBL Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Self-actualization could include giving back to others. But, it also includes being the best that we can be. Most people never get there, but we try. I think education, such as college could also fit into self-actualization. Things like going on a mission, joining the peace corps, etc. would fit in there, also. I think the whole point of self-actualization is to get us to realize that we really never reach our full potential. Life is a process of all of these things that happen to us and we are always trying to be better. Maslow also theorized that people can move through any of these stages at different points in their lives. It makes sense if one day you are living in the US and eating hamburgers and biggie size fries from McDonald's, listening to a psychology lecture on Maslow at college and a week later you are in the peace corps in Africa and not sure if and when you are going to get your next meal. Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Wish we could do all that, but it's a difficult task when all we are thinking about is sex. I'm jk Bally. I know what you are saying.. that's very deep. I think alot of us don't reach our full potential because of fear. That's my theory anyway . Link to comment
DBL Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Ok this converstation is getting too technical for me. Let's stick with how often we think about sex. I am thinking about it now and now... and now... and now... Not now... but now... DBL Link to comment
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