snapperoo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 Hi, I am new here, and I just really needed some advice. I have been with my partner for approximately 4 years, prehaps heading for 5, and I am becoming at my wits end. In the past I have asked him to marry me, and he always replies with 'one day'. I would like to get married before having kids, and he doens't seem like he is ever going to ask me. On that note, I have now left the ball in his court to ask me if I would like to marry him...but he just doesn't seem willing. He says he loves me, but he doesn't seem to want to commit. I would also like to start having a family with him soon, but he says children are too expensive, and he just doesn't seem interested. All of our friends have kids, and since we have bought a house together and I really would like to have a child in the next couple of years. He is making this increasingly impossible though, as whenever we make love, he pulls out long before the task is complete. I don't want to be manipulative to get myself pregnant, but I really feel like I am never going to have kids with him. The thing is I do love him so much, and when we first got together he was always going on about when we have kids, but now I am ready, he is backing away as quick as you can say pregnant. Please give me some advice, at the moment I just feel lost. Thanks Snapperoo. Quote Link to comment
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