Married too soon?

[surfjon]

What I meant was that everything in todays society is so "disposable", it's hard to not allow that view to bleed into relationships too. Everyting is so transient in nature these days that it's hard to hold any relationship together, especially one that started when two people are so young they haven't had a chance to really even know who they are.

 

At 20 years old, you are not anything like the person you'll be at 40. The change is unavoidable and when you have two people who change, chances are you simply grow apart, become incompatible.

 

That's what happened to us, that's all. I now enjoy my new life and am starting to get comfortable with it and it doesn't feel so weird anymore to sleep alone.