hi, I'm thinking about this woman i saw once i am so intrigued by her she seems

[WitheringHeart]

hi, I'm thinking about this woman i saw once i am so intrigued by her she seems so sophisticated but hard edged at the same time and she has sort of the same physical build i have but i'm male i dont know anything about her just that but she seems like she could be my friend but i've never even spoken to her and i have only ever seen her once but then i've just started to think maybe she could be with me but that's probably because i'm thinking less negative about things but the thing is i'm shy in a way and i dont even know her i just remember seeing her and i was like thinking what the hell am i doing i could be with someone like that and i'd just be happy being her friend but it would be good to be with her because i'm not with anyone i dont know what to do i think i do this all the time i see people who i'm meant to be with even as a friend and i never see them again its like this karma or something that controls everything guides me to everything that is wrong nothing ever works out has anyone got any advice or is there anyone who feels this way? and i was so nervous about posting this but i really need to talk to someone who understands about it but the thing is, is that if shes like me in a way is that why it couldnt work as a relationship i dont know can anyone just talk to me about it i dont know these are just my thoughts i fee better about venting it but it'd be good to talk to someone about it

[WitheringHeart]

and i was so nervous about posting this but i really need to talk to someone who understands about it

[WitheringHeart]

but the thing is, is that if shes like me in a way is that why it couldnt work as a relationship i dont know can anyone just talk to me about it i dont know these are just my thoughts i fee better about venting it but it'd be good to talk to someone about it

[iamkaylee]

Nothing wrong with fantasizing about someone a little as long as it stays at a healthy level and you don't let it get out of control.

[WitheringHeart]

ok but i really need to talk about it though

[WitheringHeart]

its like some energy is stopping me from being with anyone its not all me

[WitheringHeart]

i thought someone would understand

[camus154]

OP, you're not making much sense. From what I can tell, you're intrigued by a stranger based on nothing but looks. From that you seem to think she'd make a good friend or girlfriend, when the truth is, you don't know a single thing about her.

 

What exactly do you want advice on?

[WitheringHeart]

ok thanks for replying but you dont understand and i dont think you really read it

[ToF]

No, you truly are not making much sense at all. Could you please explain a little better? And perhaps use some punctuation to make your posts easier to read?

[ToF]

Also, from what you've written here and in other threads, it sounds like you may need to go to therapy.

[WitheringHeart]

okay....

[ToF]

What's wrong? If you could communicate a little bit more about what you need, we can try to give you advice. Things like "okay don't really give us any information that we could use to help you.

[WitheringHeart]

All i've said is what i'm talking about i dont know what to say sorry

[Klokwurk]

OP, you sound like a psychopath. Go talk to the woman and see how she responds.

[WitheringHeart]

what is OP? and how do i sound like a psycopath? i cant talk to her ive never seen her since i have only ever seen her once in my entire life

[Klokwurk]

OP means original poster... I think.

 

You sound crazy obsessed with a woman you saw once in passing. Hint: women do not find this sort of behavior charming.

[WitheringHeart]

maybe i am 'it scares woman off' i never was meaninng to scare anyone off i was just posting my thoughts whats wrong with posting my thoughts obviously i dont know anything *shrugs*

[ToF]

There's nothing wrong with posting your thoughts, but this is a forum for people seeking advice. What advice are you seeking?

[WitheringHeart]

i'm just here because i dont want to be without a woman who loves me and would always be with me which i'll never have because it doesnt mean anything to anyone i dont mean anything to anyone that way so i'm hoping people can help and i'm here because i'm completely alone in this way and this is the only place anyone can help me by giving advice but i dont know how anyone can help i got nowhere else to turn and theres nothing i can do

[ToF]

Have you ever dated anyone before?

[WitheringHeart]

and there are people who dont want me to be with someone because they want to keep the biggest grudge in the entire world and are talking behind my back and i'll never know but i know its happening and no-one really cares well theres alot of people who will do everything they can to see me alone i really need someones help eventhough i know it is up to me but how can i stop something like this i'm not a super being

[ToF]

WitheringHeart, I mean this gently and without judgment: Have you seen a therapist? Your thought patterns seem paranoid and completely disjointed. I think you need to see a professional.

[WitheringHeart]

what you think i'm a psychopath like that other person?

[WitheringHeart]

i am not a psychopath