Is he done with us?

[MicahRayne]

So my bf changed alot in the 6 months that we have been dating. He is very distant. He doesnt say he loves me anymore, when he does its almost like its bc he feels he has to. We hardly ever have sex and when we do mess around, its mostly for his own pleasure. I am devastated and I just want assurance that he loves me as much as I love him. How do I approach the situation.

[Deejmonster]

Do the simplest thing possible. Talk to him about it... then come back and inform us of what happened and we can help you from there.

[annie24]

So my bf changed alot in the 6 months that we have been dating. He is very distant. He doesnt say he loves me anymore, when he does its almost like its bc he feels he has to. We hardly ever have sex and when we do mess around, its mostly for his own pleasure. I am devastated and I just want assurance that he loves me as much as I love him. How do I approach the situation.

 

the problem is that you don't know if he loves you as much as you love him. this relationship is still very new and people change their minds all the time! it's possible he's losing interest. or it's possible that he's grown too comfortable with the relationship and has stopped making an effort like he did in the beginning to win you over.

 

i guess you can talk to him. or you can just become a little more distant yourself and see if that sparks renewed interest on his part. ie - don't call him as often, making plans with your female friends, etc...