flirting with single dad

[samanthajones]

There is this really awesome single dad who lives up the street. We will lock eyes from a distance but don't talk. He def checks me out. I have been trying to casually run into him and have a conversation but it dosent seem to work. He usually has his kid with him and she stares at me also and is obviously nervous. So I don't approch...I thought abt just leaving him my number? Thoughts?

[luminousone]

Ohhh... Don't go there unless you are able to move... Because if you start to date but are not exclusive then you'll see him with others or someone else's car in the driveway. Also too tempting just to become a booty call

[pl3asehelp]

Ohhh... Don't go there unless you are able to move... Because if you start to date but are not exclusive then you'll see him with others or someone else's car in the driveway. Also too tempting just to become a booty call

 

Huh? What's wrong with seeing another car in the driveway or him with someone else if you know he's dating people? Pretty much expected. And really, you would become a booty call just because you happen to live close?

[luminousone]

Huh? What's wrong with seeing another car in the driveway or him with someone else if you know he's dating people? Pretty much expected. And really, you would become a booty call just because you happen to live close?

 

Nothing, unless you become more attatched than he does, in which case it could be painful to see, and difficult to avoid. I remember threads from others in here regarding this topic of living close by their ex and how difficult and painful it was. I think I remember one had to completely take a round about route just to avoid seeing her ex and his current dates.

[PaintWithLight]

The fact she is posting this from just a few stolen glances on the street indicates caution. He is checking her out because of her looks and proximity. I do get how the OP knows that he is an awesome single dad. Has she even talked with him? Best advice is to stay away. You do not need any drama on the block.