Did you cry about your EX today?

[unhappy2000]

I did, don't worry it gets better. I am at 5 months BU and NC. But notice they are the same amount, if the NC had started later I know for a fact I would not be as healed as I am currently.

 

Do I still love him? Yes of course. I don't miss him though I just miss someone but that is SO much better than missing him!

 

As soon as I think about our good happy times like oh last year at this time...I remember why I am happier without him, something I couldn't see clearly two months ago.

 

Trust me when I tell you I am a grown women who has been through break ups before and I had to have my mother come over and sit with me while I cried myself to sleep every night for weeks, so yea this was an awful awful breakup for me. Don't worry if you go full NC you will get better but you have to work with it as well.

[Sukiyaki]

I cried yesterday. Not today though....

[damionco]

I cried today while watching "How I Met Your Mother". Feel so alone since the separation. Not divorced yet, but she has been gone for over a year. I don't know if it was for her or the life I lost when she left. It probably doesn't help that the season I am watching is all about becoming a parent, since we never had children and I am feeling very depressed about never being able to be a father.

[xxStormy]

I cried today. After two months of feeling better he makes an appearance in my life. And i realized that i still love him... Hes an ******* a selfish jerk and i still love him... So im crying right now.

[Kieren956]

I didn't cry today but I did yesterday, and probably the day before... I wanted to share my experience of a past breakup, basically I've had 2 really bad breakups in my life, well actually I had a few more than that but only 2 were relationships that lasted roughly 3 years each... This last one I'm far from over, but the other one, that took place maybe 10 years ago, I survived... We were best friends, it was the first great big love of my life and I loved her more than anything... But we were young and inexperienced and in the end she left me, after many many months of things going downhill... I actually had to move accross the country to get over her, from NY to NM... She was on my mind everyday for YEARS afterwards, not to scare anyone, but nothing was able to get her out of my mind for the longest time... Until many years later, maybe 4 or 5, we met up again, and one night, out of the blue, she kissed me, and we got back together... It didn't last, and this time around it had been my fault, because I didn't break it off with the girl I was actually seeing when she kissed me... But what did she expect, just barging into my life like that after all that time? And what did the new girl expect, with the love of my life barging in and kissing me? Lol I know it's bad, I actually ruined my chances at reconciliation when things were otherwise perfectly lined up for me and her to make it work that time around... She was devastated and she moved away to FL this time around... So I was left broken, and it wasn't until I moved to France, where I live for now, and met the second love of my life, that I forgot about her... It took such a magical, wonderful meeting for me to move on... And now, as you all know, this new one is gone as well... Woe is me, lol... Bottom line, you will survive this, it may take a long time, but there really is nothing you can do about it... Have faith, be strong... PM me for any advice, I'm the breakup king...

[rikachu]

I havent had that BIG cry as of yet, I dont think its hit me yet that hes really gone.It hasnt even been a week yet since the BU so I guess this is normal.Today I dreamed about him though and he was so sweet in my dream, like he was to me before we broke up. Waking up from that hurt so much i felt the tears come before I even woke up. I cried for about 3 minutes then it just stopped.

[tosmileagain]

I cried today. My friends at work found at that we broke up today, I hadn't told them yet. I just couldn't admit it to myself, how could I admit it to others? So when they found out I felt even more awful. I also saw a very happy photo of him today. So as you see it's been such a cursed day I can't believe he broke up with me only a few weeks later still saying wanting to get married to me, and moves on without me. I console myself saying that doing something like this shows that he isn't the one for me and it happened for the better in long term. Yet I can't help missing him.

[Misaki27]

I find myself sobbing sometimes. I still cry at night (only when I'm not completely exhausted from uni), but during the day I sob. There are bad times when I catch him talking to the girl he supposedly likes, that I start welling up. But this happens at school, so I have to get back on track immediately.

[Steph2oo9]

It was a few years ago, and the relationship was not as long as my recent one. Part of me is still trying to remember how the hell I got through that one. I remember being depressed for a while. I started working, and it took my mind off of things some. I was just happy we were in a different town, and I didn't have to see him. It took me longer than it should have to get over him because he kept coming in and out of my life, constantly screwing with my head. I knew he regreted it, and still cared for me, but all he ever did was mess with me. I officially got over him 2 years later, after the last time he made me cry. I dated other people before I was truly over him, and it helped. But he was always at the back of my mind. I honestly do not even know how to get over this one since there are so many more memories. I am not eating or even showering (gross, I know). But I am severely depressed. I would love any advice on how to even take the first step forward. The wound is still fresh, and I can't even concentrate at work or school, and I really need to.