hi i dont know where to specifically post i think this is right

[WitheringHeart]

hi i dont know where to specifically post i think this is right, i dont know what to do i so badly want to be with someone in a relationship but it feels like it can never happen i joined a dating site and it is not working out at all and i'm thinking the only way now is to just meet someone but that seems like it can never happen that if i just talk to anyone it will be over before i began i really need help i have no clue what to do someone help i dont know how anyone can help but its worth asking

[Ms Darcy]

Try meeting people in real life. You need to lay out how you approach folks and maybe we can give you some advice/tips.

[becomingkate]

How old are you? Are you male or female? Have you had a relationship before? What have you done other than join a dating site?

[Deejmonster]

I think you are in the right spot. Welcome to the forum. The one thing that I have learned through my success and failures with dating and relationships is that you cant force love. With this in mind, everything takes time.. if you try too hard it usually makes you seem as if you are coming off too strong and too clingy... and only experience will help solve this. How old are you? One thing is to just be patient, the next is to just have fun meeting new people.. dont chase down every person you see to see if they are compatible for you.. it will happen naturally at the right place and time with the right person... Online dating isnt a bad start, I have met many females on there and it also taught me what I like and what I dont like.. dont be so down on yourself and remember that confidence really can go a long way.

[WitheringHeart]

i still dont know what to do

[Deejmonster]

i still dont know what to do

 

There isn't much you can do. Just built up your confidence and put yourself out there. There is no 1 solution to solve an issue like this. The one thing that does help is building self confidence.

[WitheringHeart]

i'm in my late twenties, male wondering if i'll ever meet a female, i dont if i had a relationship before because all along she just wanted to get back with her ex but i didnt know i dont know how to do it just think i'll be let down or that the previous relationship if it was one will destroy any chance of being with anyone

[WitheringHeart]

ok i'll build self confidence i dont know how though i'll fail at that too

[WitheringHeart]

someone help

[Ms Darcy]

I think I remember some of your threads. I would suggest therapy.

[WitheringHeart]

ok i'll go to therapy thanks for the advice probably what i need

[WitheringHeart]

sorry i agreed with you because was extremely tired at that time, i am actualy feeling not half as bad as when i did those first posts on this site so i think i might have a chance with someone but i could be terribly misguided in thinking maybe i have a chance i know no-one can say that i can find someone most definitely because life has millions of twists and turns but i could

[WitheringHeart]

i havent met anyone i just am a lot more positive and am not thinking as negative as did on those posts

[WitheringHeart]

but thats not to say i'm not wary or nervous because that's natural or that i dont need advice because i have not much experience in being with someone in a relationship saying that someonelse may have less experience so i dont know just letting my thoughts out and thankyou for any advice people have given me here already