Why1234 Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Was dating this girls for a short time and we did sleep together too soon, but we have great chemistry. She is a bit hot headed and I'm the opposite. It seems the last few weeks when she gets stressed out with work she can't do anything else. Last week she asked for some help and I went over to her house for a couple hours and helped her with some of her work, end of month bookkeeping. I left, kissed and made plans for a date Friday night. I called her and she didn't respond the next day, then that afternoon she texted and said was busy with work and stayed up late. Cool I can understand that, but it just felt weird. I texted her back just saying cool and hi. Two days passed and nothing, so I texted and said I'm here if you want to talk. No response. And Friday came and went with no date. I also noticed Thursday night she was on a dating site (we met online). She hasn't called or responded to my text 2 days ago. We got along great and had great chemistry. What makes someone stop so quick without any communication and no warning signs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star Killer Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Yeah that is odd man, and I would love to know as why. I had that happen to me a few years back but we were long time friends and then one day she said we couldn't be friends anymore and dropped off the Earth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why1234 Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 I get that- but she said nothing. I always tell someone I don't want to see anymore something- even if its a lie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star Killer Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I don't know its the unknown man, it could be a million things....maybe she got busy or maybe she just wanted to end it and not hurt you...I don't know lol I'm in the same situation right now....haven't heard back from a girl since Thursday....so I feel your pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why1234 Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Hang in there too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star Killer Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Haha I should be studying for two midterms but this is driving me mad....sigh hopefully she will respond...we'll see and I wish you luck as well man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I think you are asking the wrong question. IF you want to stop wasting time/emotional energy in dating, take time to get to know women and don't continue dating if you find any unpredictability (e.g. hotheadedness). Don't let attraction/chemistry cloud your common sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klokwurk Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I think you are asking the wrong question. IF you want to stop wasting time/emotional energy in dating, take time to get to know women and don't continue dating if you find any unpredictability (e.g. hotheadedness). Don't let attraction/chemistry cloud your common sense. This. Totally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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