Worker Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 hey guys so get this, my ex broke up with me 3 months ago, she kept leading me on here and there throughout those three months. she was out of town. when she came back we met up, hung out and did pretty much everything a bf and gf would do together, for 1 week straight. I kept asking her if she has a boyfriend or is in a relationship with someone, she continuously denied it to my face.. She told me she was leaving town to visit her parents which she did. She told me she would be gone for 1 week. Turns out she came back to town 3 days early with her new boy friend of 2 months. I found out. I went to her place and confronted her about it, and told the new bf that she is cheating on him with me. She completely denied it and called me liar.... I ended up going back to their place another 3 times, for what reason I don't know.. each time she told me to **** off. Before i found out about the new bf, she kept telling me how much she loved me and wanted to marry me... I don't know why she just didn't come clean. Im so hurt right now, I can't stop think about them together. I am so unbelievably hurt i can't believe it. Her new bf leaves town to go back home today, I plan on visiting her and finding out what the hell she is doing, although i doubt she will even talk to me. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Don't visit her anymore as you have already gone around there enough times. Visiting her yet again won't change the fact that she is a liar and a cheater. Count your lucky stars that you are no longer with her and let her go. Next time she contacts you (these people always come back around for their ego fix) cut her off and tell her not to contact you again. You are best to be rid of a lying, deceiving cheater. Link to comment
Worker Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 why do i still miss her and want her back? Link to comment
markie6 Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 It's like coming of heroin... you know it will kill you , but you still want a hit. Love is like a drug why do i still miss her and want her back? Link to comment
elcie Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 You haven't yet emotionally disconnected from her yet so it's hard for you to see the situation clearly. But try and be a bit more objective. Do you really want to get back with someone who is lying to you and cheating on her current boyfriend, even if it is with you? She is not going to change. Your efforts to remain in contact with her puts you in a no-win situation. If you fail to win her back, you will only cause yourself more misery; if you succeed, you will be getting back with a liar and a cheater who will certainly betray you in the end. Be brave and stop trying to contact her. Your life will be happier without her! Link to comment
nrb Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Let her go to H*ll where she belongs...Save yourself as long as you have the time! Link to comment
dasilver Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 You haven't yet emotionally disconnected from her yet so it's hard for you to see the situation clearly. Your efforts to remain in contact with her puts you in a no-win situation. If you fail to win her back, you will only cause yourself more misery; if you succeed, you will be getting back with a liar and a cheater who will certainly betray you in the end. Very good advice....well said... Link to comment
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