kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 If you don't want a relationship, what is it that you're hoping for? I'm wondering that myself too, maybe just a relation like we have now, like flirting and all but it'll be more better if we know each others feelings, then I could stop if she doesn't like me or is leading me on. It's really confusing I know, but I don't know what to think after what she has done to me.. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 If all you want to do is flirt, why is it so important to know her feelings? Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 If all you want to do is flirt, why is it so important to know her feelings? I don't know, because I DO have feelings for her and it's pretty strong so I guess I don't want her to be joking in any sort of way. Link to comment
leogurl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I got attracted to this due to the "leo" part, cough cough. xD Hon, you need to move on. If kissing her helps you move on to have some closure to your feelings, do it. You'll know how straight or not straight she is. Don't hope so much though. Tough world out there trying to figure out which girls like girls. (some even change their minds....DAMN) I'm just one of those random people....I'll ask you directly of your sexual orientation if I find you attractive ._. It saves me the trouble. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 I got attracted to this due to the "leo" part, cough cough. xD Hon, you need to move on. If kissing her helps you move on to have some closure to your feelings, do it. You'll know how straight or not straight she is. Don't hope so much though. Tough world out there trying to figure out which girls like girls. (some even change their minds....DAMN) I'm just one of those random people....I'll ask you directly of your sexual orientation if I find you attractive ._. It saves me the trouble. Lol???? What a response man I don't want to kiss her because I'm scared I would freak her out, also we once nearly kissed before lol, neither of us minded. Link to comment
leogurl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I did read that, that's why I suggested kissing her, because she didn't react strongly to nearly being kissed before. She neither went for it, or move away from it, know what I'm saying? By kissing her, her next move will be more definitive. But let's just toss that in the air, because I don't want you to be uncomfortable. you should just ask her, we can play the what if game, but we'll never know. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 She neither went for it, or move away from it, know what I'm saying? I don't quite get this lol Link to comment
leogurl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Just scratch that. I'd seen your multiple threads and you like to keep replaying things your friend had done. Seeing and reading your threads, I'll just say that...your perception on how your friend acts towards you may be altered/affected because of your feelings. First of, please stop it. I think if you keep going on with it, it may become a bit of an obsession that's not needed. STOP. You need to just ask her if she's into you. Or sees you like that. This will end your ongoing thoughts of "what if" Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 Just scratch that. I'd seen your multiple threads and you like to keep replaying things your friend had done. Seeing and reading your threads, I'll just say that...your perception on how your friend acts towards you may be altered/affected because of your feelings. First of, please stop it. I think if you keep going on with it, it may become a bit of an obsession that's not needed. STOP. You need to just ask her if she's into you. Or sees you like that. This will end your ongoing thoughts of "what if" If it was so easy to just say that I wouldn't be posting stuff on here, like I said before I don't want to ruin anything because if she really wasn't into girls then it''ll be all awkward == this has never happened to me before how do I know how to deal with it?? Link to comment
leogurl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 And if she was into girls? Wouldn't that ruin whatever you have with her, if you did pursue her...? The dynamic of your friendship will be different in any case. Isn't it already awkward for you? Just wondering. A lot of the people who replied to your thread had similar advice. Find out or Don't find out. I still strongly advice you to find out because it will end this. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 And if she was into girls? Wouldn't that ruin whatever you have with her, if you did pursue her...? The dynamic of your friendship will be different in any case. Isn't it already awkward for you? Just wondering. A lot of the people who replied to your thread had similar advice. Find out or Don't find out. I still strongly advice you to find out because it will end this. How is it awkward for me now? She doesn't know I like he, she just knows I'm into girls that's all. Why would it ruin what I have with her if she is into girls too? Also she started everything, I didn't do anything and just went with the flow. Link to comment
leogurl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Because you can't stop thinking about it. If not awkward, then it is a bit uncomfortable? Ok, let me rephrase it, it won't ruin anything, but it will change a lot of things. For ex, if she's into girls, you're most likely to make a move on her right? therefore the friendship dynamic will be changing. Bottom Line, you either find out or don't. ._. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 Because you can't stop thinking about it. If not awkward, then it is a bit uncomfortable? Ok, let me rephrase it, it won't ruin anything, but it will change a lot of things. For ex, if she's into girls, you're most likely to make a move on her right? therefore the friendship dynamic will be changing. Bottom Line, you either find out or don't. ._. Hmm I see, actually somewhere in my heart I am pretty sure she likes girls for some reason. Our friendship has already changed from that day, since we were VERY ordinary friends who only had one class together, and now we turned to this......so yea it's already MUCH different from before already. What "moves" do you mean btw? Link to comment
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