kishaatan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 What some subtle signs a Leo women likes another women? Would it be the same as when a Leo women likes another man? I believe Leo people are very mischievous and like to fool around a lot and likes flirting so it's really hard to tell right? I also heard that some are very bold and tell you they like you, some like to glance at you subtly and don't tell you. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 People are people. If you spend your time trying to fit their behavior into arbitrary categories you'll miss the real signs. Link to comment
Minx2012 Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Definitely agree with Moontiger. I think that when you put people into categories, you have already set or limited your perceptions to that category. Leo women are supposedly " fierce, passionate, attention loving " etc etc etc. If you have this preconceived notion then you start to extrapolate or even assign certain types of behaviour to people. For example, upon finding out that she's a Leo woman, you're probably assuming that she is " passionate " and she should be more " overt " and " assertive " with her flirtations with you. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Definitely agree with Moontiger. I think that when you put people into categories, you have already set or limited your perceptions to that category. Leo women are supposedly " fierce, passionate, attention loving " etc etc etc. If you have this preconceived notion then you start to extrapolate or even assign certain types of behaviour to people. For example, upon finding out that she's a Leo woman, you're probably assuming that she is " passionate " and she should be more " overt " and " assertive " with her flirtations with you. Then what can I do to make sure she is "actually" flirting vs "jokingly" flirting? Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Every "Leo" woman is different, so there will never be an answer for this question. I don't think it makes any difference what their sun sign is - people are people and all flirt in a different way. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Every "Leo" woman is different, so there will never be an answer for this question. I don't think it makes any difference what their sun sign is - people are people and all flirt in a different way. Hmm I see, it really is hard to figure someone out especially when they're nature is like that. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 You really need to give this up. Your friend is straight. just forget it and move on. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 You really need to give this up. Your friend is straight. just forget it and move on. Just went to a looked through past threads. And I agree with this post. She is STRAIGHT. I find people often will try to cling to astrology when things don't go the way they want. I think you are grasping at straws here. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Just went to a looked through past threads. And I agree with this post. She is STRAIGHT. I find people often will try to cling to astrology when things don't go the way they want. I think you are grasping at straws here. Heh not everyone flirt with someone after knowing they're lesbian right? Just saying. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 She's STRAIGHT. Please don't do this to yourself. Move on. I flirted with a straight coworker of mine, there were times when I could have sworn she was reciprocating. She wasn't. Please do yourself a favor and end this mess and find a woman who likes women. You're just wasting your time, as much as a guy would be if he were just CONVINCED you wanted to be with him. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 She's STRAIGHT. Please don't do this to yourself. Move on. I flirted with a straight coworker of mine, there were times when I could have sworn she was reciprocating. She wasn't. Please do yourself a favor and end this mess and find a woman who likes women. You're just wasting your time, as much as a guy would be if he were just CONVINCED you wanted to be with him. It's not that easy to forget someone. What kinda of "reciproacting" are you talking about in this case. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 *facepalm* It must be a feature of us ***** girls that we are apparently incapable of moving on and letting go... Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 *facepalm* It must be a feature of us ***** girls that we are apparently incapable of moving on and letting go... So what things did you do with each other Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I never did anything with anyone. I was in love with my former best friend. I also had a crush on a straight girl who I worked with. I never did anything with either of them. I'm a 28 year old virgin who's never kissed anyone. I also don't have any friends, which I already told you, but I guess you forgot. Apparently I'm not allowed to say qweer. Even though I'm not using it in a derogatory way. w/e. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 I never did anything with anyone. I was in love with my former best friend. I also had a crush on a straight girl who I worked with. I never did anything with either of them. I'm a 28 year old virgin who's never kissed anyone. I also don't have any friends, which I already told you, but I guess you forgot. Apparently I'm not allowed to say qweer. Even though I'm not using it in a derogatory way. w/e. Are you saying you had a best friend AND a co-worker because it sounds confusing Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Are you saying you had a best friend AND a co-worker because it sounds confusing Not confusing at all - that's exactly what she said in her post. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 I never did anything with anyone. I was in love with my former best friend. I also had a crush on a straight girl who I worked with. I never did anything with either of them. I'm a 28 year old virgin who's never kissed anyone. I also don't have any friends, which I already told you, but I guess you forgot. Apparently I'm not allowed to say qweer. Even though I'm not using it in a derogatory way. w/e. The fact you didn't do anything with them is because you don't know if they are lesbian or bisexual etc right, unlike me because my friend KNEW I was into girls and she acted more close to me, it's different from your situation. Also you don't like to do anything with your friends which also makes a difference, since you don't do anything with them, it doesn't make you as close to them. That's just my opinion though, it might not be right. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Nope. My ex best was bisexual, she just wasn't into me. That's why nothing happened. The reason nothing happened with my coworker is because she was straight. Both of them knew I was into women. I think your opinion is whatever you will allow yourself to think to think you have a chance in hell with your HETEROSEXUAL friend. Also you don't like to do anything with your friends which also makes a difference Incorrect. A straight girl messing with your head makes you closer to her. Hmm. I'll keep that in mind! I must have been reaaaaalllly close to my former coworker, then! Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Nope. My ex best was bisexual, she just wasn't into me. That's why nothing happened. The reason nothing happened with my coworker is because she was straight. Both of them knew I was into women. I think your opinion is whatever you will allow yourself to think to think you have a chance in hell with your HETEROSEXUAL friend. Incorrect. A straight girl messing with your head makes you closer to her. Hmm. I'll keep that in mind! I must have been reaaaaalllly close to my former coworker, then! Why are you so sure she is STRAIGHT?? If you flirt with girls after you know they are lesbian/bisexual, then you must be at LEAST bi-curious in some sort of way. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Yes, because straight women never ever flirt with guys they have zero interest in just for the ego boost. You're just like the guy she has no interest in, except you're a woman that she has no interest in, because she's straight. I find it's best to believe people when they tell you their sexual orientation. I'm under the impression that your friend told you she was straight, and you are choosing to ignore what she's told you. I can't say I don't empathize, but why not find a woman who likes women? It would be a better use of your time. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I read back and read that your friend is "very tomboyish." This sounds very similar to my situation with my former coworker. She literally wore men's boots and jackets, a watch instead of a bracelet, liked to shoot beer cans with her air rifle, never ever wore makeup. Straight girls who are tomboys can be quite intoxicating, and, dare I say, poisonous. It would best to think of these heterosexual women as heroin. Avoid them. It seems like you're pretty deeply into this, I read your profile and you've been going on with this for two months now. As for what my ex coworker did, oh god. She touched my hand, which made me shiver all over. But she did it in such a way that it "seemed" like an accident. She came up behind me in a subtle way. She was a lot more subtle than your friend is, partly because it was a work environment. I never spent time with her outside of work. She knew perfectly well that I liked her. The other thing was that I would subtly try to tease her and I noticed her reacting to it. This is why I convinced myself for a long time that she was not straight. Because of this involvement, I have icky, lingering feelings about this woman. Don't do it. It's not worth it. Obviously you already know this but there is no correlation between androgyny and same-sex attraction. Yes, they often occur together, but I'm pretty girly, and my former coworker, well...I told you. Damn this situation has been going on for awhile for you. Just kiss her or something, damn. You'll get your answer. Just stop lingering and wondering. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Don't you think that if I kissed her everything would be over? Since you said she was STRAIGHT. Also once we did nearly kiss, she was jokingly leaning towards me and I did the same, our foreheads were so close together and so were our faces. I leaned to her lips to "pretend" to kiss her and she put her head back a little since there were people EVERYWHERE. That was my only experience on kissing. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Honestly, before I knew more about the situation, I would have advised against it. But I think you should just kiss her. I think it would give you some answers. If she pulls away or asks what the hell you're doing, you'll have your answer. If she kisses you back, well, then you'll know. Just stop going on with this. You shouldn't expect a relationship, though. I think she probably is straight and she might be willing to make out with you, but I wouldn't expect more than that. I also want to share a lovely little thing that happened to me with my former coworker. The ****ty things always seem to happen to me when I go e-sleuthing. I found her okcupid profile, and she had answered a question "have you ever had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex?" with "No, and I would never." That's when I really knew I had to get over her. I was completely humiliated, because I felt that she had done this deliberately, knowing I would find it (she was already aware that I had found her myspace and facebook accounts). Not that you care, just showing how pathetic some of us can be when obsessed with a straight girl. Link to comment
kishaatan Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 I'm not expecting a relationship with her, I just want to make sure her intentions and feelings I guess, but the process of doing this is hard. My situation is actually more than what you may have read. Link to comment
cadmiumblue Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 If you don't want a relationship, what is it that you're hoping for? Link to comment
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