UnderMySkin Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 If you were in a committed relationship would you take your partner to a nude beach for the purpose of seeing other people naked? I'm aware that there are couples who go together for many different reasons. But what if the partner making the suggestion considers people watching as the main point of the event. For the asking partner What makes you think your partner would enjoy watching you watch other men/women? For the partner being asked How would you feel if your partner asked you to go with them to watch other men/women?
csr14 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I think I would go given the opportunity. It wouldn't be something I would probably want to do on a regular basis but it would be a fun experience to be somewhere where everyone is letting it all hang out. If my boyfriend asked I would definitely make it clear that it's just for fun and its not something I would want to start doing on a regular basis. If I was the one given the opportunity and asked my boyfriend to go I would make sure he knew it wasn't for me just to oogle naked men and women. I think nakedness is something society is scared of and to be somewhere, that the social acceptable thing to do is sit there in your birthday suit? Why not! No tan lines!
lukeb Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 The way you are asking the question it seems a bit rhetorical, that is you are trying to express an opinion rather than asking the question. I would have no problem taking my partner to a nude beach, for some there might be the initial novelty of seeing other people naked, for most true nudists though it isn't a sexual thing but a natural thing to do. Don't do it if you are not comfortable doing it. I have been to nude beaches and gone on kayak trip where whenever we could we were naked, and it brought us closer as friends, but it didn't sexualize our friendships at all. It is not about watching them it is about showing yourself and seeing people how they truly are.
TalkThatTalk9 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I am a very shy get to know you type person, don't like strangers much. my ex and I went to the bahama's a few years back, and people were nude on the beach. I don't know if it was because I was in a foreign place, or I had one too many bahama mama's but I decided to go topless on the beach. it was a very liberating feeling. I don't think people go to nude beaches to look so much as to be "Free" so to speak... and most the people I saw, were not "hot" so to speak...... but not gross. they were "normal everyday folks" mostly older... it is not what you are thinking.... I don't think.
DN Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Moderator Note: Is this a rhetorical question or are asking for opinions on a specific situation?
UnderMySkin Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Moderator Note: Is this a rhetorical question or are asking for opinions on a specific situation? This is not a rhetorical question. And so far people have missed the point of the question. I'm not asking if you're comfortable going for the sake of feeling free or liberated. This is not about being a nudist vs non-nudist. How would you feel if your partner asked you to go to a nude beach for the sole purpose of seeing other people naked? Emphasis on that last part. Discuss.
Moontiger Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I would not go. If my BF asked to go for the purpose of seeing other people naked I would probably fee hurt. Something about it being "real life" instead of a fantasy like porn or strip clubs doesn't sit well with me.
epsilon2x Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 This is not a rhetorical question. And so far people have missed the point of the question. I'm not asking if you're comfortable going for the sake of feeling free or liberated. This is not about being a nudist vs non-nudist. How would you feel if your partner asked you to go to a nude beach for the sole purpose of seeing other people naked? Emphasis on that last part. Discuss. Are you male or female? You should ask why he/she wants to see other people naked. If we knew the reasons why someone wants to do something, it'd be easier to give advice. For example, it'd be different if your partner wanted to see other people naked for pleasure vs having body issues and wanting to see different shapes and sizes. Catch my point? I'm just not going to assume anything without any more details.
Natasha24 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I wouldn't go. If my boyfriend wanted to, I wouldn't stop him, but I would find it kind of odd.
PaintWithLight Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 This is not a rhetorical question. And so far people have missed the point of the question. I'm not asking if you're comfortable going for the sake of feeling free or liberated. This is not about being a nudist vs non-nudist. How would you feel if your partner asked you to go to a nude beach for the sole purpose of seeing other people naked? Emphasis on that last part. Discuss. I think the moderator has reason to inquire about the threads intention. Thank you for the clarification. Have you been to a nude beach? If someone is going for visual gratification, there is a high chance of disappointment. I would go there once with them for a laugh. If it became a full time request, I might be concerned.
DN Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Moderator Note: ENA does not allow general discussions of a sexual nature. There must be a question asking advice about an circumstance affecting an individual rather than a generalised discussion. If you feel this thread applies please send me an explanatory pm. Until then this thread is closed.
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.