Personal Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 That is something my girl said to me the other day whilst breaking up with me, i'm just confused, i do love her but alot has happened in the relationship and the last year (We where together 2 and half) i have been the one running round for her and just basically be a push over the yes man if you like. When she told me the other day i fancy and think your gorgeous but i have no sexual interest anymore. I'm confused, is it because i have been a push over and am just there maybe needy??? Or is it because of everything that has happened?? Could she change her mind (shes travelling at camp for special needs in america at the moment). Any advice would be great.
april15 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I do believe your being too available did it. I am not sure there is any recovering but it is worth a shot. Limit your contact with her and work on yourself. Do things for you, and if her interest is rekindled don't jump all in. Keep some time and energy for yourself and things that have nothing to do with her.
Blue92 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 It could very well be that you are a push over to her and that is very sexually unappealing to most women. If she says she still likes you then at least you got that going for you. Tell her that you joined a gym a something to perhaps sexually interest her again and remember to stand up for yourself and it is ok to tell your gf "no" sometimes. Women like men to be a little bad a$$.
Personal Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Ok thanks guys guess i always felt guilty about the way i treated her in the first place, to much partying and what not. She knows i love her but when she told me in the e-mail (that she loves me, that am like her rock but theres no sexual thing there anymore) i think my reaction surprised her, i just told her ok if thats how she felt, and since i have been very very cool, shes messaged me asking a question i just answerd that, she also commented on a picture saying "i love your hair" i ignored that. Its been on my facebook which she cn see that i have started boxing again. Thanks for the advice.
april15 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Lay it out there that you are not interested in a platonic relationship. Be an acquaintance not a friend. Once i am romantic with someone there is no putting those feelings aside.
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