Had enough. About to tell him that I'm leaving for good.

[pippy longstocking]

wow kay ..you have done good

 

and you have a good attitude ...I am glad for you that you did what you thought right , said your bit and have walked away

ready to just get on with life.

 

I wish you love and peace x

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I should have provided a bit of context here. This is a guy I used to go to school with but he also just got out of a 4 year relationship with his ex and we only started talking a couple of weeks ago in light of what's happened to both us. His break up happened about a week before mine did. It was just a coincidence. I haven't talked to him since high school which was 6 years ago now. Anyway, I'm definitely not in the mindset to be dating again, neither of us are, so I don't think anything will be happening romantically in our lives at least for the next 6 months. He's not a guy I was friends with throughout my relationship with my ex, we just knew each other mutually through high school.

 

Well, I can see a rebound for both of you...I can see both of you feeling at loose ends and one date will be two dates will be sex etc. That is often the way things happen when people fresh out of a relationship initiate or accept dates from someone. They always claim they are not ready for a relationship and dating..but their actions contradict their words.

[KayF99]

Well, I can see a rebound for both of you...I can see both of you feeling at loose ends and one date will be two dates will be sex etc. That is often the way things happen when people fresh out of a relationship initiate or accept dates from someone. They always claim they are not ready for a relationship and dating..but their actions contradict their words.

 

I decided not to accept a date. This guy is totally irrelevant to my situation right now and we're just talking as friends. I don't get intimate with someone after a few dates because of my beliefs so no, this won't be happening.