Allyjane Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Ok, so I guess I know exactly what the response will be to this, but I guess I just need confirmation that I will be doing the right thing. My ex and I were together for almost 3 years. We broke up in april this year. His decision as we had been on and off for a while and he couldn't take the up and down emotions any more. After about a month or so, I thought we could be friends (which was what he wanted). It was hard at first as the feelings I had for him were more than just friends. Anyway, after a while, I felt that my feelings for him had changed and that we really could be just friends. It turned out that we have ended up being FWB and again, up until now, that has worked out ok. However, I am now realising that my real feelings have just been hidden and that of course, I do still love him and want more than friendship and sex. I know that he doesn't want more and I also know that he does not think I do either. I think that I now have to tell him goodbye once and for all, which again will hurt me so much... but I realise that I can not move on and even begin to let anyone else in my life, while my ex is still in it and my feelings for him remain the same. Is that the right thing to do???...
mhowe Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Agree w/ Reddress -- you are wise....you need to move on.
mickydrip Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I agree you do need to move on but i also believe you need to tell him first and see what he says, but make sure he doesnt play on it and end up using you. Just tell him and move on.
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