How do i get my ex back?

[dejc94]

my ex broke up with me almost two year ago and the whole time iv still felt the same, i have tried getting back with her awhile ago but she didnt want to, now i just pretend like i don't want to be with her, in hopes she thinks i don't need her and want's me back.. we still talk but only when she wants to, i often send her message's but she wont reply or she will just do the one word reply, the only time i get to talk to her is when she wants something from me.

 

she has dated other guys and as much as it hurts i try to be happy and support her with the relationship, most of the time she dates idiots that treat her wrong and she's left hurt, but keeps going back to the same types of guys. she really likes this one guy now, but they never see each other and hes really confusing and she doesn't no what he wants, is what she last told me about them two, so shes real upset at the moment and doesn't care about anything i do or say to her because im not as important as him.

we were both our firsts for everything, our first real relationship was with each other we both lost our virginity to each other, we were pretty much never apart and always talking to each other, and in the end i think us being together all the time drove us apart, and as time has gone on she has moved on but iv been left behind

 

i love and miss her so much, but its almost like im nothing in her life any more, iv spent so long waiting for her to come back but i keep getting let down, i have no clue in what to do to make her feel the way she use to about me, is there anyway i can get her back? if anyone could help me out id appreciate it so much.

 

thankyou

[Blue92]

Hmmm i hope you don't keep pointing out the flaws in the guys to her and telling her how much better you are then them... It sounds to me like she might even be on a bad boy streak. The most you can do is play it cool and keep focused on other things. Keep "small" contact so you know how eachother is doing and make sure you always say how good you are doing and what's new. Try to make the what's new part sound really interesting, so she'll get interested in what you're up to. Other than that she can only come back to you on her own terms and you should not force it otherwise you will end up pushing her away even further.

[dejc94]

iv only pointed out the guys thing a few times when she asks why does this keep happening to me, ll of her friends tell her the same thing as well.

thanks for the advice, il be sure to use this next time we talk