Changing my FB profile pic?

[ZhaoZilong5]

Haha I guess it's not really that important since it's only FB. I don't log on much to FB anyway, but I know she checks mine a lot. Her cover photo is of us, and so is my profile picture. I know it's unlikely that she'll date me at the moment since she's leaning towards somebody else, so I'm probably going to go NC/LC. Should I change my FB profile pic or leave it? If I do change it, then should I change it to a solo pic of me at some place that gives her good memories? There's also a pic of me that she really likes that she took that I can change it to lol. The only recent pics of me that I have are the ones she's taken, so unless I want to use something from years ago, then I feel like I have a pretty good reason to fall back onto a picture she's taken anyway.

 

Yeah, it's only FB, but I'm just covering all of my tracks to have the best chance of reconciliation if I still want it later.

[Tom1990]

I'd change it to something neutral, like a lightning bolt, or some new shoes you got. Just something totally unrelated to single/relationship status.

[r0ckox]

dude change it. believe it or not, it might just be "facebook" - but people take it seriously (*shock*), so if she's leaning elsewhere, change that picture to something else. take my word for it. it'll be silly to have your main pic as the two of you and you're not even her first choice.

[Carus]

I agree, change it to you doing something fun...

 

Then expect her to query it....

 

But if you are broken up then you are free to do whatever you want...

 

Regards

Carus* 8-)

[Roxie84]

If she's leaving you to be with somene else, who cares what she thinks?

[ZhaoZilong5]

Well, you know the honest answer. Me! Lol. I want to have the best chances for reconciliation if our paths cross again in the future. True, I could not care and be an *******, call her names, insult her, and live my life, but that's not the path that I want to choose.

[TriColors]

Why do you want someone that is "leaning" towards someone else? What happens when she changes her cover photo to her and this other guy, what will you do then?

[HeartGoesOn]

Well, you know the honest answer. Me! Lol. I want to have the best chances for reconciliation if our paths cross again in the future. True, I could not care and be an *******, call her names, insult her, and live my life, but that's not the path that I want to choose.

 

I don't think that a picture on a social networking site, will be the deciding factor regarding your chances of reconciliation. It will serve you better to focus on your life in the real world, IMO.

[ZhaoZilong5]

She probably will, and it would be weird if she kept me up there. Likewise, it would be weird for me to keep mine up there for however long when we're no longer together.

 

It won't be a deciding factor. Most things aren't a deciding factor, like how emotional I was at the moment of the BU, but imo everything still adds to it overall no matter how much or how little, and that's my point lol. Would it be attractive if I post on my FB walls how much I miss her and stuff, etc.? Of course not. Is it still FB? Yes. That's why I'm asking about this lol. What's so wrong about giving me a direct answer? I agree with r0ckox and most of the actual suggestions here. I just don't have anything "fun" since I don't often have pictures taken of me. I have solo pics that she took of me that she really liked, but I'm not sure if those are appropriate or not for what I want.