Losing it

[Tiffany89]

I have been with my boyfriend before in the past for 6 months, we broke up and went our separate ways. Two years ago we got back together and some things he told me about the people he slept with kind of hurt, but I got over it. So we start going out again and everything is good, we move in together and one day I go to my parents only to come home to find out he was watching porn and lied to me about doing so, he then began to talk to some girl over facebook he used to know. He is always going on things with half naked women on them, I told him how I felt and everything and how much it hurt me and he let me put a keylogger on his computer so that I would be able to see what and who he was talking to over the internet. A few weeks ago he began acting weird and made me take the keylogger off of his computer, he then changed the password to his computer. He said he just wants me to trust him without having the keylogger because it made him feel like I didn't trust him. He says we cannot be in a relationship if I don't trust him. I can't trust him after everything that has happened in the past, but I really love him, what do I do? I just can't help thinking that he is trying to hide something again.

[Blue92]

What did he do in the past? If he has already cheated on you, he is likely to do it again. In that case, his behavior is even more suspicious and he should not care whether or not the keylogger is on the computer anyway. Tell him that you want him to leave it on for a while to make sure he wasn't just getting frustrated that he couldn't talk to other girls in the way he wanted to.

[cupcake22]

I think guys who insist on having passwords to keep others out is usually hiding stuff...

[bigsix]

No trust in a relationship equals a rocky relationship. People don't tend to hide things because it's all good. Protect your heart and your health just in case this blows up. It's not my position to say, but I smell a RAT.....