Unsure...

[MrMan13]

I've been in a relationship with a women for a year who has two kids. Her ex, the father of the two kids is still involved. He has always been trying to get her back and she did go back to him a couple of time for short periods of time but she comes back to me.

Now they want to go away with the kids on a mini vacation to show them that even though they are not together they still get along. Should I be okay with them going away?

[metrogirl]

There is no need for them to vacation together if they are not in a relationship. She's playing you.

[Animelover6764]

There is no need for them to vacation together if they are not in a relationship. She's playing you.

 

^ Agreed but since the kids will be there maybe nothing will happen, but who knows.

[gluestick]

Why bother wasting time and effort (not to mention money) on a woman who is wishy washy between you and her ex?

 

Why are you even okay with her going back to him, coming back to you, going back to him, coming back to you, going back to him....leave and find someone who does want you 100%

[Hollyj]

Yes. I would have ended it the first time she went back to the ex. She is still in love with this guy and is showing that she has NO respect for you.

 

End this, and show yourself some self love and respect!

[JA0371]

I agree. They can show the kids they 'get along' by being respectful to each other and not bad mouthing one another. They don't need to go away on a 'vacation' to accomplish this. If you are still relatively un'involved I would disconnect from this situation now before it gets any worse.

 

Best wishes!

[SpottiOtti]

No, you should not be okay with them going away together, given her history of going back to him.

[charity]

yikes! ok. her going away with the ex on vacation is a little unnecessary BUT I could possibly handle that if i trusted her reasoning. BUT the fact that she has left you already for her ex makes it a big no no. i'm a bit worried for you that you even have to ask.