Sensitive or not?

[lovinggirl]

I know a girl ard 6 months ago, she's super friendly and we got along so fast. We found out that we work so close that we become lunch date ever since. She's very sanguine and have a lot of friends, and every meet up usually organized by her and attended by lots of our friends. I'm really grateful I have a friend like her. Suddenly out of nowhere, she stopped contacting me. She usually texts me in the morning asking how I'm doing, asks what my plans are and see if we can do something together. It's been almost a week she didn't contact me and when I tried to get in touch with her, she ignored me. So today I messaged her again, I was so surprise by her response.

Me : Hey how are you? It's been a while since we chatted. Are you OK?

Her : Yeah, I'm OK. Sorry I didn't get back to you last time, I saw your text late and it's not relevant already.

Me : Oh it's OK, it's in the past. Is everything OK? Something happened at 4th july dinner? I notice you've been ignoring me since that dinner

Her : Hey (my name), please don't be too sensitive okay? Everybody has their own life and aspect. Not everything is around you. If you didn't reply to my text. e.g. (she gave me example when she text me when I was driving and I totally forgot to reply to her until late night) I didn't think too much.

Me : Yeah you're right, maybe I'm too sensitive. It's just so drastic you're so friendly and suddenly disappear out of nowhere. It's not like you. but maybe I don't you that well.

Her : Yeah, I don't know you that well either. I don't know that you're that sensitive. I'm just busy with other friends, one of my friend has problem. I'll tell you later OK?

Me : Ok, talk to you later....

 

The conversation was so weird and made me think...am I really sensitive? Do I have the rights to talk to her like that? Her response was hurtful and made me think, maybe I've been taking her for granted or too self-centered?

[camus154]

Here's how I take this.

 

She acknowledged outright (and apologized for) blowing you off for a bit, and you kept pushing the point by asking if all was ok since "she was ignoring you". And it went from there. I think if you would have simply said "No worries, just wondering if all is well", the conversation would have gone differently.

 

Don't sweat it. If I had to hazard a guess, I would say you might be a tad sensitive.

[emperor]

She wants everything from you. So when she realized you're not going further, she also added the unreplied SMS of yours and plus the fact that she is a little bit selfish she thought that this is going nowhere really. She wants to move on...