engraved2008 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I noticed this....When I don't text or call my ex for couple of days.he contacts me even with a simple have a great day baby message .anyone experienced this ?
csr14 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Yep! Sure have. He just wants to know your still there. Ignore him, especially if he broke up with you. "baby"? Really? Someone is trying to be manipulative I'd say. Don't reply. That will throw him off big time.
lovinggirl Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Yep! Sure have. He just wants to know your still there. Ignore him, especially if he broke up with you. "baby"? Really? Someone is trying to be manipulative I'd say. Don't reply. That will throw him off big time. My ex did that too. I think it's because their ego. It's their way to say, "Please, please don't get over me, don't forget me!"
ReturnToSender Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 He's calls you baby even though you guys are broken up..?!?!? If he broke up with you I would be wary of talking to him. He might just be trying to keep you around as plan B. Meaning that if whatever he's trying to do doesn't work out he'll have you to fall back on.
dasilver Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 My ex-ex texts me every 3 weeks. Like clock work he sends me text messages every 3 weeks. I do reply them but i don't say much. He does all the "talking" One day i just asked myself "....and you once liked this guy?"
jumper11 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Mine messages me every other day usually.. even after only messaging him once in an entire month... Day 15 NC and he's messaged me almost 10 times in 2 weeks.. some do this, some don't, apparently mine does an extreme amount :S
spaced1 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Yep my 'ex' does it, really pees me off. How does it make you feel? Do you like it? I find it extremely frustrating. I love my ex, though I don't want to be with him, I know I will never meet anyone ever again who will come anywhere close to how special he is/was to me. It was kinda...right people, everything in common, just wrong time, wrong place. He doesn't want me now, that's ok....lol. Seriously....haha..I'm ok with it, just wish he'd get a grip and stop calling me when he's lonely, cos that's why he does it. I get excited, my mind goes in to overdrive, I forget why we broke up FOUR times, I just remember that buzz when we first met, that feeling that will never be shared with anyone ever again. He texts...wow...he must really miss me...want me.....etc. He pours his heart out, ever so meaningful, I give it a while to reply..cos those few hours make all the difference..right? I finally give in, I text back...no reply. Hmmm. Maybe he's asleep. Maybe he's out of credit - even though last time I seen him he spent hours going in to great detail about his pay monthly contract which meant he's never out of credit? Maybe he's changed contract? Haha get my drift? Saturday just passed my ex asked if I'd like to meet up again sometime? Not heard from him since. I've texted him twice. Once this morning, once tonight, no reply. I hate the ****er,LOL.
engraved2008 Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Mine checks on me to see if I m ok ...he says
engraved2008 Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 He knows I love him ,he knows i was good to him and he knows he broke my heart .
csr14 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 And now he knows he can message you anytime and your going to reply. Break that cycle and pretend he's some idiot that thinks he can have you when he wants --- WAIT BC he does think that! Don't fall into his crap!
mg22 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 And now he knows he can message you anytime and your going to reply. Break that cycle and pretend he's some idiot that thinks he can have you when he wants --- WAIT BC he does think that! Don't fall into his crap! Yes i agree ! people tend to keep you in the loop for there selfish reasons ! make yourself a priority , dont allow peole to use you and play with you. You deserve better than this.
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