Klattu Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 She loved me and and then lost the loving feeling. We have been through quite a tumultuous time during the past three years. We got back together last December and all was fantastic but the last few months have been difficult resulting in the conclusion that my gorgeous wife has fallen out of love with and wants us to part yet again. When split before we talked a hell of a lot and involved friends and parents to gather more thoughts, enlightenments, etc.... But often this confused the issue even more, too many conflicting opinions. So, this time we are keeping it to ourselves, when the time comes for me to move out (when I can afford it), that's when we tell others. One of the things we decided was to keep our wedding rings on thus avoiding any questions from observant friends or relatives. Well, she took hers off this morning, she didn't tell me that she did this. I spotted them on the bedside table; is this a message of some kind, is she already interested in another man.... good god I hope not. On one hand, we both agreed not to get involved with anyone for a while focusing on our single lives only. On the other hand, she knows that I am still madly in love. It would be incredibly insensitive to start dating so soon. I took the rings hoping she will ask if I have seen them. I may as well put them on eBay, what's point in keeping them? Thanks for reading.
Skooz Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 If she's the one who wants to end the marriage, why are you the one leaving your home?
EgoJoe Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Yeah, tell her to get out. I'm tired of hearing about Wives saying they want a divorce 'cus they aren't in love anymore, the guy moving out and she brings back ten guys from the club to film a gang bang. Man up and tell her to get out because you're done.
Klattu Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 She owns the house and the children live there, I have to leave, that's it.
octour Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Take off and dont look back. Im real sorry this happened to you.
Skooz Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 How old are the kids? Regardless of the circumstances, they will think you have abandoned them if you leave. If the house is hers, and not yours, then you may have no choice. But, do all you can to spend as much time as possible with the kids. Let them know, not in words but in deeds, that you wish with all your heart that you could stay at home with them. Best of luck to you.
LoveHurts89 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 How old are the kids? Regardless of the circumstances, they will think you have abandoned them if you leave. If the house is hers, and not yours, then you may have no choice. But, do all you can to spend as much time as possible with the kids. Let them know, not in words but in deeds, that you wish with all your heart that you could stay at home with them. Best of luck to you. Way to make him feel good! The kids will NOT think you have abandoned them. Other than your wife taking off her rings, it sounds like this has been civil, and so I imagine there will be no fighting to get access to the children. As long as you see them on a regular basis, this will not make them feel abandoned. You have enough on your mind worrying about your wife without worrying if your kids will be upset too. My brothers and I were 15, 12 and 4 when our parents split, so varying ages. Dad came to get us every Saturday night for definite, and ad hoc days through the weeks, as and when our school schedules and his work commitments would allow and we never felt abandoned.
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