Being used for sex.

[Batya33]

I still think this is disingenuous. Sex is pleasurable for you both otherwise you wouldn't keep having sex with him. You yourself say you enjoy sex. He's not using you; you are getting something out of it too. Please don't run towards claiming that after you get pleasure you are suddenly being used.

 

And I also think you need to examine yourself if you think of yourself as weaker. I agree that you are weaker, by the way. Not that you are inherently weaker but that you are choosing to be weaker. You have a voice and you can say no: choose to do that.

 

I agree with this - every time you agree to have sex with him he's entitled to assume you've made the choice to settle for what he's offering you.

[ProtestTheHero]

LOL I'm going to protest and say you did used her for sex when you knew her intentions.

 

You should of stand strong on your own integrity.

 

 

I didn't know her intentions, unless you're saying I shouldn't take women at their word and assume they are incapable of knowing what's best for them and that I should constantly read between the lines. Either way, I would hardly apologize for anything I did nor do I feel guilty.