oyyvey Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 It says: "Hey, to reframe your quasi-question from a few days back, things are weird and hard but I'd like to make sure you know I wholeheartedly wish you only happiness. If I do something 21st century drastic and defriend you off the 'book, know it's not out of malice. Much love." She sent that a few days after we slept together (after we'd broken up). Should I respond? We did break up, but love and care about each other very much. I can't imagine my life without her, but we just don't work and have tried and failed many times over 4.5 years. We've broken up so many times that this time around I don't know who broke up with who or if it even matters, but I don't want her to just disappear and so am asking: Should I respond? Thanks guys... going crazy over here...
oyyvey Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 I know that's probably the right way to go, but I'm thinking of just saying, "I understand. It sucks." Or something like that. So she knows I care or something.
doyathink Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 If you feel like you need to make some kind of closure text, then do it and get it out of your system. Then fall off the face of the earth.
toby17 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Don't respond. She's telling you she might delete you off FB, so expect it when it comes, or delete her first.
dasilver Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I would respond.... You were together 4.5 years... You may not be good together as a couple but you can still be civil.... Saying something like... "Thanks for the heads up. I wish you nothing but the very best too...take care" Is adult like...it's civil and it shows that no matter what, even though the two of you are no longer together. You spent 4.5 years of your lives as a couple; for that you respect.
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